90 day challenge starting today who is in?

Discussion in 'Events & Challenges' started by Saoconrado40, Apr 12, 2019.

  1. 12ove

    12ove Fapstronaut

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    That is progress for sure! Keep moving forward, not backward. We can do this. Seems like a lot of us are moving forward together here. I think this is a great place for us.

    On for another great day. Finally a day off! Days off can sometimes be the most difficult time to stay away, so I am really going to focus on some other hobbies:)

    I promise to not PM (no P, and no M) for 24 hours.
     
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  2. Craig365

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    Ok guys i am safely on day 4. Day 5 fully clean is uncharted waters for me for probably a decade,so interested to see how i feel.
    Guys keep going.. let the days pass 1 by 1. Breathe, relax and take it easy.
    For me this is not just a 90 day reboot its a full life without porn.. (look into my journal if you guys like)
     
  3. Buckleberry Finn

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    would really like to join you guys on this challenge....because PMO my personal projects are not moving any further, all the creativity is getting stalled...
     
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  4. go4aRUN

    go4aRUN Fapstronaut

    The group is full, but @Robullfrog has counter set to P only.

    I think if he does not want to obstain from M as well and/or we do not hear from him soon, @Buckleberry Finn can have his place.

    But let me know what you guys think. We are a democracy after all :)
     
  5. fortify

    fortify Fapstronaut

    You are doing a great job as an administrator :D
    Thank you
     
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  6. futuremd

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  7. Raikage

    Raikage New Fapstronaut

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    Can i join
     
  8. Raikage

    Raikage New Fapstronaut

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    I am in starting today !!
     
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  9. Craig365

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    Guys i didnt watch porn neither have i had an orgasm but i masturbated this morning for a couple minutes..
    What do you guys think, Is this to be considered a relapse in your eyes @go4aRUN
     
  10. Ghost79

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    So you massaged your sausage a little. I don't think so.
     
  11. fortify

    fortify Fapstronaut

    You are setting your counter on Porn, Masturbation, and Orgasm. You masturbated, so it's clear that you relapsed. No problem, go again and don't surrender ;)
     
  12. PepeKappa

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    Yeah, I would say you have to reset your counter. However, don't use this as justification for P or MO.
     
  13. Craig Values

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  14. kingofhearts

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    Very bad depression and anxiety am so worried that whatever i do i will Never regain my normal sexual abilities. I sometimes think to suicide. Guys will my weak erection and immature ejaculation will go away after the 90 days ?
     
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  15. Ghost79

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  16. fortify

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    Bro don't give up, you're doing great already! Be sure that after 90 days things will be much better. Till then, we all need to resist as much as we can. I assure you that you will regain your sexual abilities again, I read a lot of scientific articles that confirm that, but you need to fight and change your habits and daily routine first.

    If you want my advice, try to increase your goals progressively. Put a 3-day-objective at each time and increase it afterwards whenever you feel more confident. Try to masturbate at least 1 time a week at the moment and then stop it whenever you feel ready. You have to take the decision to stop porn immediatly however, install a porn blocking program in your devices (I recommend Qustodio) and make a difficult random email and password to signup with so you make sure you can't recover them if you want to delete the app, it worked with me.

    Think of life as a test man, it can be tough sometimes but every problem has a solution and for sure you can deal with it.
    Always check the forums here at NoFap, this community got your back.
     
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  17. go4aRUN

    go4aRUN Fapstronaut

    @kingofhearts I won't tell you about what I have read or heard (although that is valid too). I will only tell you what I have been through myself and know through my own experience:
    • Obstaining from P and M cures ED/PIED and weak erections.
    • Obstaining from M cures DE. (Can't speak about PE, have not been through it.)
    • No matter how much you think about suicide or that this is what you should do, the day will come when you will feel f**king glad you did not do it. When that day comes (and it will!) you will know that that would have been your biggest mistake. Just have faith that the day will come!
     
  18. go4aRUN

    go4aRUN Fapstronaut

    @Craig365 I think that you should reset your counter, but very importantly you must not beat yourself up about it. I have been reading your journal and it is clear that you are making progress. The important thing is that you are moving forwards, not backward. How fast you are moving is less important.
     
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  19. go4aRUN

    go4aRUN Fapstronaut

    Sorry, but the group is full at the moment. (20 = max according to NoFap rules.)

    Another person is already waiting to join, but please feel free to keep an eye on this group. There might be a free place at a later date.
     
  20. go4aRUN

    go4aRUN Fapstronaut

    Thanks, man :)
     

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