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90 day challenge starting today who is in?

Discussion in 'Events & Challenges' started by Saoconrado40, Apr 12, 2019.

  1. awayforlong

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    Hey, thx for the replies. It is easier, but at the same time there are more triggers. I am aiming to quit porn alltogether and not sex. So 90 days with no PM would be a huge success for me. But I dont want to sabotage anybody. Maybe I add the no PM to make it clear
     
  2. awayforlong

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    I dont know what the goal of you is, for me it was to break a vicious cycle that included not enjoying sex. I think going to a hooker is a bit like porn since it is not a "real" interaction. A one night stand on the other hand is sth real since you interact. But these are just my 2 cents
     
  3. awayforlong

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    Also going to a prostitute is similar to porn since you are completely in control and have no real interaction with a person. Instead you decide on fantasies and receive a service with an actress. Fulfilling sex has to do with giving up control and experiencing mutual joy by being able to enjoy smaller dopamin rushes but deeper connection
     
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  5. 12ove

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    I think the 4 to ten day mark is pretty tough to get through. Here I go!

    I promise to not PM for 24 hours.
     
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  6. Giovani12

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    Uff for me everything prior to day 9 was going well, but it's getting harder:emoji_joy:
     
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  7. JJ_Kino

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    I'm on day 5 feeling good, hoping to smash my best record of 65 days.

    Not sure why my counter isn't showing? It used to.

    Any ideas??
     

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  8. Don't you feel like the days pass too slowly when you set a milestone you want to reach??

    Before beginning this challenge, I'd always been amazed by how fast the days go by and I'd ask myself how did this month ended so quickly as it feels like it started a week ago.

    Now I'm on my 13th day of no PMO and it feels like the 31st xD.
     
  9. Giovani12

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    Ok, unfortunately, I had a relapse, but it was a weird one. I did it becuase I went to bed at like 11:00 pm but couldnt fall asleep until like 4:00 am. I got frustrated (becuase literally I wasnt doing anything else other than trying to fall asleep). This has happened some times in the past, and it happens when I workout at night (around 7-8).
     
  10. Craig365

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  11. tsongz

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    Day 1 for me today. Keep at it!
     
  12. kingofhearts

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    Day 11. Still on the way.
     
  13. Ghost79

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    Day 2. Feel like a midget! But no problem for now.
     
  14. kingofhearts

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    guys me and my fiancé are going to marry march 2020 maybe. till that date i have about 11 months. do you think it is enough time to recover from porn addiction ( of 10 years but not heavy watching) and 18 years of masturbation ( also not heavy maybe 2 times a week) . yesterday i visited a psychiatrist and asked him how much time that the brain needs to rewire to its natural condition. he said it depends on the person and the severity of addiction but no less than 3 months.
     
  15. Giovani12

    Giovani12 Fapstronaut

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    Well, that sounds like it's very possible. Specially if you have someone you love
     
  16. 12ove

    12ove Fapstronaut

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    Plenty of time for your addiction, but you must get started soon and work hard
     
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  17. Giovani12

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    Oops, I had a relapse. With this one is my second one in like 14 days, but I feel like it's going to be the last one in a while. My thoughts were: "one last time", but I have thought about it and realized that an addict cant have one last time. The level of addiction doesnt matter, it's still an addiction, and I want to get over it.
     
  18. awayforlong

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    I am still in and my life has become a lot better, I thought I might last a week, now the urge is a lot less and I am aiming for 90 days at least. But like I said, I am in light mode. And my sex life has improved a lot ever since!!!
     
  19. 12ove

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    Had a reset on day 10..time to start over again!

    I promise to not pmo for 24 hours
     
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  20. PepeKappa

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    Reset yesterday. I'm at day 1 now.
     

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