Hey guys, today is day 12 for me. I had a huge wet dream last night but I usually recover from those after 12-24 hours.
I'm out. Sorry to say gentlemen but I had a really bad relapse last night. I refuse to give up though. Keep on fighting this battle, you'll all succeed!
djmotion, you are doing a great job. Just like you said, adding that much more to the challenge is overkill in several ways. The thought behind it is good and all and it is great if people like self improvement BUT trying to take on too much at the same time will backfire in the long run. I have been there and done that. It is like trying to run a marathon but starting with full speed...not good. Have a good day brothers! Let's kick the sh*t out of this PMO beast proud of you djmotion!! (I'm on day 3 today and doing good)
I'm sorry to hear that bro keep on fighting though and you will get there eventually. Don't let a relapse set you back!!
Thanks bro and very true, I think people should decide what they're capable off and create their own challenges.
today is 12 days no PMO. I think when I had a strak during winter of 70 days it is not lost at all, even if i relapsed in that period. I was able to recover social relations, I had physical exercises till August when gym closed and I got a very beautiful body. I recovered to read and I was able to read three books from january. Meditation, study, karate. I started again to cultivate my passion s, to construct my life and belive in my dreams. What can I get from abstinence now? I am sure to get no more mental foggy, no more frenzy, euphory, recover eye contact with the others, and why not to find a girl to love and be loved. Today i am taken by compulsivity, only thing i would like, is to PMO. I have taken a photo of me with my friends in a one of the happiest moments and I sticked it to the wall. They give me the force to resist, to remeber me i have some dreams that i can realize, that they are a beautiful thing in my life. So my life is not ugly, I am not ugly. I have a problem, called PMO but i'll resolve it. I remeber after this period in WInter I began to feel better. When I was on 30 days of streak, other people said to me they saw me different. I know I can think only one day at time, it is not important to count days, because i want to arrive the day when i lose the count.
Right now I'm on a little over 1 day. No major differences obviously. I will update on how I'm doing next week.
Again a good Day today. Flatline will probably come soon so i'm enjoying these good days to the fullest. Stay strong today guys and add that extra Day to your streak!
Congrats on another day bro I hit 15 days clean in just over 1 hour, I'm proud of myself and you guys for hanging in there. Especially those of us that ain't having sex, dealing with our sex drive can be tricky business. I find that it helps when you just ignore it, don't put too much focus on your sex drive or fantasies and the urges are easier to deal with. Keep on fighting guys!
Hmm...Here is what I found among my old replies. 180 day Warrior Challenge! Who wants to join and grow stronger than ever? Seems I got confused between two different threads.