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day 7 . the will of PMO is increasing. I fell a little depressed because i cannot accept an unrequited love. She is only my friend but a great friend and I would like to get more and more. I know I have to go on but I'm not able to accept this fact, I ask to myself , is there anything missing in me? So PMO becomes the only alternative but I don't want to surrender. I want to listen to my emotions, it is right I am not well because my feelings for her are big and true and I accept I am not well because one day I get up and sun will return to shine. I can also say thanks for having a great friend. day by day i want to learn to accept her decision.

 

Exact position as me bro. I'm in love with my best friend but she has a boyfriend and a 5 and half month old baby and she still wants to be mates but it's difficult and it seriously tears me apart inside and makes me want to fap but at the end of the day it ain't gonna help in the long run. I need to accept her decision and be happy for her, complete my NoFap challenge and move on to someone else. You need to do the same bro, not gonna lie it's gonna hurt and be difficult but you will be relieved once you are in love with someone else who is in love with you back and you'll forget most of your feelings for the girl you love now.

 

thankyou bro, I want it, only be happy for her. Ithink PMO would only increase my actual feelings for her creating a sort of dependece from her

 

I believe PMO is bad in this situation because it causes you to fantasize about her which is gonna make you want her more. The best thing is to fantasize (romantically not physically) over another girl and you will slowly see that there are plenty more girls that you could be happy with. You love her, you find her beautiful, you think she's the only one for you but that's just what love feels like. The truth is there are plenty of other women you will love and you will end up with the girl that you are meant to be with.

 

Do you want to live like a wolf or a sheep? Fight the urges, strive towards attaining your goals every day and you will become the alpha male!!

 

This song is fucking awesome.

 

Heading into day 16 today and feeling strong!
Felt a little agitated and irritated yesterday which lead to me not being so nice to the people I love in my life.
Today I'm making the choice to be a better son, brother, boyfriend, trainer, coach... the list goes on.
My brothers, this journey is about being a little better than you were yesterday. We can't be rockstars in a day.
This battle takes a lot of time, energy and passion to overcome.
However anything in life worth doing is worth overdoing. Dig deep and get to pushing.

 

***POSSIBLE TRIGGER IF YOU INTO ANIME***

 

Hello there, i am new to this forum!
I am in !!

 

me and the girl I'm in love with have decided to go our separate ways for a while. It hurts like hell and makes me want to give up my fight but I won't. I need to use this time to move forward. Warriors don't quit!!

 

"Pain is temporary. It may last for a minute, an hour, a day or maybe even a year but eventually it will subside.
If you quit however it will last forever."
Stay strong!

 

Thanks bro, it's not to be honest. She's the only close friend I have and she says she doesn't want to lose me but wants to do what's best for me and that she will contact me eventually to see how I'm doing but I find it hard to believe she cares.

 

I am in!

 

I'M IN!!! Day 1 almost done

 

I m in..day 7

 

Day number 5 behind me. I'll try to search for other activities than watching new movies, listening to music, going for a walk (this should be done more often but it is how it is for now), reading a book to do on daily basis. Just to not pay attention to the urge so much. I am more rational but that's actually thanks to my other therapy. Today, I installed extension to my PC browser called "Block image" (I am using Chrome). I've noticed that I spent too much watching pics which could lead into porn. Also on the internet, I am forced to see something what I don't want to. I just see text. Especially on Facebook or YouTube. I thought I can share that with you. I've read some posts I missed in here and I think you're very strong and more aware of your fellings. Keep it up

 

So far so good. Had a dream (a nightmare) the other night that I was looking a porn and masturbating lol. I was so relieved when I woke up. Got some terrible news that my 7 yo cousin might have been molested by a family member. Can't bring myself to look at porn with that weighing heavy on my conscious. We do live in a hypersexual society that leads us to these weird fetishes and additions and turns us into savages. I don't want to be in that savage demographic anymore.