Could Strap On porn be like a gateway to transgender porn?

I think any kind of porn can eventually be a gateway to transgender porn. It's all about that escalation factor and wanting a new fix. I was hooked on lesbian porn (both strap on and non strap on) for the longest time and one night while looking engaging in a PMO session, I stumbled on transgender porn. At first my thought was "well that is gross" but the next day there I was searching out transgender porn.

 

Could be

 

Possibly. I've always identified with being the woman in porn (wishing I was her) and I started with solo women, then lesbians, so I can see how strap-on lesbian could lead to a desire to getting pegged by a woman with a strap on, and then a woman with a real dick.

 

Do you still feel this way? That you want to be the woman?

 

Hmm… good question. When I was younger, I felt this way most of the time, while watching more vanilla porn. I rarely look at porn anymore, but if I did, I gravitate towards towards cuckold/femdom/sissy genres and, in that case, I identify with the sub male. And … that’s where my fantasies will take me as well.

 

The thing with lesbian porn is it's more insidious than you might think (for men at least.) Because there are no men in it, you have no one to project onto, and over time you can start to associate your own arousal and pleasure with the feminine, not the masculine. This can lead down further rabbit holes.

Personally, and I'm no psychologist, I think a lot of fetishes not ingrained by formative experiences can be the result of psychological hang-ups or other mental issues. I don't mean mental illness per se, but for example, I think a lot of people addicted to submissive porn genres may be insecure in their ability to have normal sex with a regular woman, so their brain takes them down another route. The inverse can also be true, I don't doubt many sexually frustrated men turn to sadistic porn where they imaging themselves hurting women. Not because it's a thing they actually want to do, but because they are so insecure and frustrated deep down that their inner id is warped.

It's also possibly sometimes to just be into a thing and that's that, but when porn is involved, it's best to introspect.

 

Have you tried this in real life? If yes, what was the experience? If not, why not?

 

I think this is true. When I first watched porn I only watched lesbian porn. I thought it was weird to see another guy get laid. It didn't occur to me that I would picture myself as that guy. Perhaps subconsciously it was making me submissive.

I ended up stumbling on one bdsm type Lesbian porn video and that spiraled into years of watching femdom porn. I honestly think to some degree it's part of me now, but at least I truly feel like I'm on the road to porn addiction recovery.

 

Could disorder be a gateway to more disorder?

Yes. Yes, it can.

 

I'm not sure if there is but it's a thought I had. I think there could be truth there.

Yea haha I guess I worded it kinda silly

 

i don't know about strapon, but there are a lot of straight men watching lesbian porn. so even lesbians with strapon i think is something that straight men like to see, without being transgender (am i making any sense here ?..lol )

 

One of my former friends who introduced me to lesbian porn ended up in a string of bad relationships because he identified with the feminine in his courtships, leading to a toxic choice of partners who identified with the masculine and dominated him more than he could communicate with them. He could've done better, the women he dated were all promiscuous and looked somewhat like men. I see him now and we're complete opposites.

 

Do you think the porn changed him or was he always like that