There is a video on YouTube, about nofap. The guy just says just stop being a bitch. Just stop. You got this. Impress her with it. Lol
I think you should really focus on the NoFap challenge. I am sure you can do this, step by step. Focus on new hobbies, try some new sports, meditation, yoga. Use the panic button. Look for some tipps when urges come across you. I am sure you can do this!
I had a call with her and we're getting along again. I made clear to her how serious it is to me, and I even told her that I joined this community. She understands how serious I am about it and she's happy again. Thank you so much for your advice, you have no idea how much it means to me. Now it's just important for me to achieve this goal and to control myself.
This is exactly what I wanna do right now and I know it's the right thing to do. Thank you for your help!