I have had very less wet dreams in my entire life. What could be the reason? Few facts 1. No sex till now. Am 42. 2. Used to masturbate every day since 15 till last year( except for few NoFap periods) and trying to control that practise for the past one year. 3. Was heavily addicted to porn for the masturbation purpose. Question: Is the wet dream not happening since there is no real life sex experience and brain has no imagination power? Or because body and mind are adapted to too much porn and masturbation and not interested in wet dreams? Though the wet dreams were more enjoyable than masturbation. How frequently do you have wet dreams?
Personally I always hated wet dreams, it was never pleasant. It happened every time I had a streak for a week and particularly if I edged or just watched porn. None during flatline.
I'm 24 now and I only had two wet dreams ever. These two only happened after I realized I had a problem with porn and tried to quit. Both times, they occured after not ejaculating for at least a week and both times, I had great trouble with porn flashbacks and/or fantasizing about porn the days before they happened. I think the reason why they never happened before is very simple: There was never a reason to have one. I mean, the purpose of a wet dream is basically for you body to check if the "pipes are still working". But when you jerk off all the time, you "check" them constantly, so your body doesn't need to do it for you. But it's not necessary to have a wet dream and I personally didn't really enjoy them much, so I'm glad I didn't have more until now. For me, it's just annoying having to clean up afterwards.
So it seems wet dreams depends on the prior sex experience as well so that it can imagine the activity. Because no matter how long I hold wet dream never happens and I have to release manually. Any romantic scene in the dream will be broken before getting into the activity or while starting. I find wet dreams more realistic than imagining a porn and masturbating.
Probably porn and masturbation. Ive only had 1 wet dream my entire life from what i can recall and that was like after a month of nofap.
It's weird, I had no erotic dream since I started my streak (about 550 hours) and just talking about it yesterday I had one. But maybe because my libido is dead (ssri) no waking up with O.
You mean boner. Its a quit less in my case too which bothers me. Or maybe my erect ion time is before I wake up When i walk sometimes in the middle of night i have one.
Twice as a teenager. Twice while doing NoFap (over several years). Consider yourself fortunate for having as many as you have.
lol. Thats right. While people get more wet dreams are not really happy that they couldn’t save it, people who get less too are not happy that they didn’t experience it more because of the virtual realistic sexual experience that wet dreams gives. I am planning to try Lucid dreaming to get it manually. Let me see how that goes.
I really don't understand why some of you guys seem to want wet dreams so bad. I mean, why? Firstly, you'll have a mess to clean up afterwards and secondly - more often than not - having a wet dream is followed by a kind of chaser effect. I can understand if you want to have one to know what it's like, but actively trying to conjure one up? I don't get it. If they happen, they happen; if not, then not.
That’s because it’s more realistic than watching porn and masturbating. That’s what I felt in the very few wet dreams that I have had till now. Yes. Felt the chaser effect as well,as body asks for it again and wants to empty the tank completely which doesn’t happen in a single wet dream. Yet, wet dreams are more realistic than the imagination while surfing porn which makes me crave for it. I am going to be on 90th day of NoFap. My Johnny is bulging up most of the time for the past 2 days thinking I would release the pressure but I am holding and waiting for a dream to do that job.
The same! I am religious and even in dream i dreamt to fuck a girl but i said to her i dont come to her cause its a sin it's funny but man its a dream. 90 days is just wow. I am on day 34 and believe me i fear to relapse.
We are on the same page. May be the moral factor is not letting it happen even in the dreams. Something or someone from within the dream will break the dream before the action gets serious. . Lol. Years back I was able to almost achieve it though Lucid dreaming. Trying the same path again which is more promising.