I agree with what Balderdash has to say, I'm not sure being identified as gay because I still want the act (which is just a release and a way to return to my past demons) helps me very much...
Then why keep asserting that homosexuality is a mental illness/disorder after you have been shown it is not? Because it is wild assertion, cobbled together with just about every logical fallacy and cognitive bias there is going. None of what you post is empirically true. Asserting something does not make it so. Yes. It is because pedophilia is not consensual that it is considered morally reprehensible. It is also considered morally wrong because the child's body and emotional capacities and/or ability to make decisions has not fully developed. If you are referring to homosexuality here, no, having gay sex does not mean you have a mental disorder. No, it isn't an orientation because it isn't a mental disorder. It is considered an orientation on it's own meritsirrespective of pedophilia.
I have been shown nothing. Prove it. Asserting something does not make it true. Who set the moral rules? According to my morals, both pedophilia and homosexuality are wrong. According to yours, only pedophilia is. Do not impose your morals on others. Prove it. Asserting something does not make it true.
Guys could you continue this argument through PM or an off-topic post please because the post is not really about whether homosexuality is a disorder or not.
Struggling pretty hard just now, got a craving for %$#@, if the 40 what year old wasn't abroad right now and I wasn't ill I think I'd be over at his right now...
Alan, stand strong. This urge, no matter how strong, will pass. Not acting on the urge is what will get you through. Pure willpower to be stronger than the urge. you are strong. You can overcome. You are almost two weeks, headed for 3 weeks and beyond.
Thanks freedomwarrior, sadly I'm suffering from a sore ball now after being so aroused earlier from thoughts
Heyy Alan, What's the progress now after 7 years of this thread. Now you must be 27. Did you take control of your life