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Post published by ttotal

Hello, I'm female 45 years old and I'm a porn addict. Not long ago, I found out that my partner is also. I'm hoping we both can quit and have a healthy sexual and romantic life together in the future. My partner seems more reticent to join, but I'm hoping she will soon
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Trappist
Then she can simply read awhile?
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What do you mean, please?
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Ges852
Hi, at least you are both open about it and can talk about it together. I think you are already on the right path to a healthier relationship. I do not think i could ever tell my wife of my addiction to pmo. I only joined here in August so maybe over time I will feel differently about talking, we will see.
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ttotal
Hi @Ges852. I think once you overcome that fear and communicate honestly with your wife, your marriage, your addiction, your life will improve. You'll feel more empowered to live a honest and more enjoyable life. Give it a go. Understand that there might be words and hurt at the beginning if she's never been in touch with this or with honesty, but time can heal everything or at least give you a more honest connection with those around you.
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Ges852
Being on here, i am seriously thinking of opening up to her and telling her, whichva few days ago I would have absolutely said no way. So hopefully that is a sign that i am progressing down this journey of recovery, i hope.
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