Post published by Jonathan Damon

Hi, folks! I'm a 22 year old guy. I discovered that i have had premature ejaculation only a few months ago.

I had gone to my new girlfriend's house and we had our fun until she said, "why get me horny if you don't want to do it." And so I did, but i felt myself coming in just four penetrations. Quickly removed and started asking her if she was ready for us to really have sex. From then i started avoiding it us having sex, acting as if i was concerned with us having sex in our second week going out. We fooled around a lot, she actually said she was mind blown by my fooling around games, which was good. But still in my mind i had a war going on. I also happen to feel like my size is relatively small, if its not erect there is hardly anything there that can seize a girl's eye( I mean, it's not always going to be erect when she will see it right? Taking a shower with her was my biggest fear!). Now i have another problem on top of that! I had another girlfriend and the problem continued, sometimes i'd even cum in fooling around(kissing and all). I only got involved in these sex plays because the girls asked.

And also only broke up with them because of the anxiety i get, and not feeling confident every time she asked me to allow her to touch and play with my penis. Also, I'm a Christian. And i know it might not matter much, but the soul fight gets extreme from there. I have always wondered why do i not get those girls who want sex after marriage, right? Make myself deal with this stuff first. But the i always come around with the otherwise girls. And i end up getting involved in these sex things.

I masturbate with online porn pictures regularly, here and there, not so much. I have heard masturbation causes PE as well? But then i have read stories of people not stopping but teaching themselves techniques of masturbation that may help. Meaning masturbating almost three times a day, with the"squeeze" and or "start-stop" techniques. (And asking myself at the same time if masturbation is a clean act in front of God? Asking then how could i ever cure this PE if masturbation, the only way to cure PE myself without drugs, is not pure) Now i'm stuck. I really need to help myself at-least try cure my premature ejaculation. Not sure where to start now. Thanks.