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Fapstronaut, Male, 17
Hey B.I., if you're still ashamed when you read this, that's okay, I won't tell you not to be. Just make sure you're using it right. Shame is like any other tool; there's a right way and a wrong way to use it. If your shame is pushing you toward asking forgiveness from God and getting restarted on becoming the man you want to be, then you're using it right.
If your shame is telling you that God couldn't possibly love a sinner like you and that you're going to be a loser all your life, then you're using it wrong. Shame should help lift us up, out of the mud and mire, not grind our faces into it. My friend and brother and fellow sinner, let's use our shame the right way, to make us the men God is calling us to become.
Thanks for posting, lets use it the right way! Honestly had another close call this morning but I'm still on top.
That's the spirit, brother! We'll turn our backs on the darkness and move toward the sunrise!
day 0. Ashamed.
Get up and fight it again! :)
Me too, buddy. We'll get up and start over together this time. 90 days, here we come!
keep on fighting..if you could do it once you can do it again!
I love your avatar. Keep fighting, Spaceman Spiff. :+) Remember your reasons.
Thanks sprinkles, I will!
Finally victory over my brain this morning. It was really tough.
Like going to the gym! Go again and again and you’ll have a great body. Conquer your brain again and again and you’ll have a great self-control
Good analogy! I'll give it my best.
Beautiful, B.I. You put a smile on my face. :) Keep it up; let's see that counter turn to 3 now.
here come the urges
Urges!? *pffffttt!!!* Not today, Mr. addicted brain!! We spit in the face of urges!! You can’t trick us!!!
What is this?
Can I eat that? :P
Eat them? Devour them!
The most important one!
Freaking love your profile pic! Keep up the fight my man!
thanks bro! You too!
Remember to take good care of yourself out there :)
Spaceman Spiff rocks v_v
The dreaded scum beings want you to PMO. Resist them, B.I.! Thanks for the link, letter!
C'mon Spaceman Spiff, you can pull out of this cycle. You're not an animal, driven by instinct or a computer, driven by programming. You have a will of your own. I know how hard it is (believe me, I do) to get your will back once you've handed it over to the evil one.
Maybe it'll help get you unstuck to use this shortest of Christian prayers: Lord, help. You've got to want help, though: it's not magic. Let's pull you out of the mud, B.I.
thank you so much for the encouragement, I need it right now, was feeling pretty stuck and hopeless. I'm gonna start trying to incorporate more scripture/prayer time into my days, thanks for the reminder, I can't do this on my own, but with God nothing is impossible
reset my counter. Sexual dreams/mo. I'm stuck in the 2 day chaser-cycle. I've got to break that first wave of urges.
Thanks, B.I. I hope your day went well. Palm Sunday is actually next Sunday for me; I'm Russian Orthodox.
No time to post tomorrow morning, but I want you to know I'm thinking about you. We both know you can start putting some time on that counter. If you don't know what to say when the urges come knocking, ask Sammy. I hope when you get into bed Sunday night, you can look back on your day and say, "I was a man today." Have a great day, mate.
Thanks man, you too! I will sure try. That was a very encouraging post. Have a great palm sunday.
Thanks for the jet stream of likes and also for the follow!
sure man! Thank you as well
failed again. chaser+saturday morning is a killer
Seriously though, why? Is like spring the PMO season or something???
I think it maybe it is. Might have a lot to do with the women dressing a little more revealing.
here comes the weekend. This is gonna be difficult
It's only difficult in your mind. Find things to keep yourself busy with! :)
Not the thing between your legs. Other things.
Preparation and strategy can be a huge help. Don't white knuckle everything. But, also breathe some fresh air :)
Having a better day today?
haha man hope you enjoy it. I am actually thinking about changing my avatar anyway, its been a while that Ive had this one
That's cool. I could use a new song.
And change your status while you're at it. You don't need to be sorry every day.
Ambushed by morning wood? Oh, well. You know the drill: get up; dust yourself off; start again. You need to get a hold of yourself, B.I.
Oh man, poor choice of words. Sorry. :D
yep. back at it. thanks for the constant support man.
I'm glad to do it. Get up, little brother. This is just a bump in the road.
guys I relapsed. sorry.
Get back up man, I know you got this, you are much stronger!
We’re human. As long as your not doing it more than you are doing it...then I believe we are on the right track. Let’s go another round! :)
Keep moving forward buddy you become stronger every time you getup !
Good morning, B.I. Stay strong. Resist well. I hope you have a great day and that you can work things out with your friend. :)
I failed it this morning. I'll try to do better this time