Post published by DomHope
Hi everybody,
I really need all your help and prayers, Rosaries, Nvena etc ...
I relapse again today after almost one year of trying (longest streak about 17 days) and to add to it that I am homlsexual and effeminated AND depressif ...
I need your prayers I beg you ...
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Intelli Gent
Ok, first, I think you need to seek out some things first. Are you really willing to change? Are you asking for legitimate help or pity and someone to just tell you it's ok? Are you seeking professional help for your depression? Prayer helps, but God has also given us doctors and given those doctors wisdom to treat. Are you effeminate by choice ( like I do like some girlish things) or did society tell you that you were effeminate? And lastly, if you are truly homosexual 1) are you active or celibate? 2) was this introduced early or late 3) do you "enjoy" it or just go along with it because someone told you you were gay?
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Lancelot Striving47
Okay, remember that Gods mercy is endless and no matter how many times you hurt Him through sin his is yearning for you to ask His forgiveness. But this forgiveness come with sincerity on your part. Remember when we say the Act of Contrition we say, " And with Your Grace will sin no more and avoid the near occasion of sin.". This means we will avoid the things that lead us to sin. Sounds like that's what you want to do! Welcome to the fight of a lifetime!
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Lancelot Striving47
It is time to turn your life around, but that means changing the way you are living your life now. It is going to be hard! You will suffer loses, but if you keep strategizing for the final battle you will win. What are you fighting? Porn? Masturbation? Same-sex acts or thoughts? Let's get a good picture of the battlefield and then come up with a plan. God made you a warrior and he would never give you a battle you could not "choose" to win.
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DomHope
I don't think we can say that I am active but I had homosexual intercourse even though I never was penetrated but penetrated a guy once ... I am like this, gay and loving girly things and everything since I can remember life ... And I am surely not enjoying it, I didn't even choose it, I am like this since I can remember life I guess and never had the choice to get out of it so no, I am not enjoying it ...
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DomHope
Yes you are right and that is why I always try to tell myself, that God will never give a battle He know I can't fight but the problem is I don't know how to fight and how to chance things, I have the impression that everytime I try something to change my life, I relapse in it 10000000x more and in a worsed way than before.
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Intelli Gent
Ok, so firstly if that is a real picture of you, you dont seem effeminate. Now if you had on makeup and all that then I would agree. I do not believe God makes anyone gay, but because we have a sinful nature that affects our physical bodies, it can manifest in everything from homosexuality to alcoholism.
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Intelli Gent
Here is what is awesome. The Devil, those demons, cant force you to do any of that. They can only offer you a choice that is why it's called temptation, because you will always have the option to walk away from it.
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Intelli Gent
God created you with a penis therefore, genetically, physically you are a man. Therefore your intentions should be towards a woman not a fellow man. This is how it should be, how it is deep inside you, unfortunately it's been covered up by something.
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Intelli Gent
If it was how you were actually created, you wouldn't be here. Unless you are troll and here just for attention.