So there I was, about to get undressed and get into the shower. The motion of me taking off my underwear created a sudden friction between the fabric and my genitals, and then bam, suddenly I feel like I'm close to ejaculating. I freeze, try to will myself to stop but it's already too late. A full blown orgasm and ejaculation! Has this happened to anyone else? I've experienced semen leakage before if I get triggered but never something like this, I'm really weirded out right now. I'm not going to count it as a relapse because I wasn't even touching myself or doing anything to trigger myself, I'm just really confused.
I know right? I did some research into it and apparently it can happen, albeit rarely. I suppose I should just stop worrying about it, probably doesnt mean anything.
How long have gone hard mode? At least you weren’t out in public, you’ve got some serious will power to control it till the point of just busting! Respect
It's never happened to me but I've heard other guys on here talk about similar experiences like driving on a bumpy road and BOOM! Ejaculation.
I'm currently on a 150 day streak, no masturbation, no porn, only orgasming from wet dreams which I have semi-frequently.
Its a very strange phenomena. Right now I'm experiencing heavy chaser effect from the experience and it sucks, gonna have to be extra vigilant for a while until it abates.
Honestly I'm kinda pissed off by it. It isnt a relapse of course but it's sure making me feel like I have relapsed. I dont seriously think this will lead to me actually relapsing, its just really annoying, a loss of some progress at least.
From a TCM point of view... it is, hahaha but I agree with you in not seeing it that way. As you haven't given up to the addictive behaviour, it just happened, just because hahaha
Honestly, I would have reset my counter if I was actually touching myself when it happened, even if it was a non-sexual context. The way it did happen its almost like my body betrayed me lmao. Like "You got to 5 months last night? Go fuck yourself, heres this to deal with."
It's happened to me a few times, somewhat similar to that . . . just the smallest amount of friction was enough to set me off. A few times I got aroused and the friction of my growing erection against my clothes (or the sheets) was too much and before I knew what was happening . . . ejaculation! Sometimes it would happen without a full erection, or without any erection at all. I wouldn't be too worried about it. Is it really that much different than a wet dream?
You are probably right, it's just frustrating. I was doing really well in terms of not feeling any post-PMO side effects for months and now after this I'm having to contend with the chaser effect and that horrible uncomfortable congested feeling that comes with it. I know the sensation will abate because it always does but yeah, annoying.
Hang in there and be patient! That's the hardest part for me, to simply be patient. After 3-4 weeks without emission there is something that feels amazing, a sense of "fullness" which I imagine (perhaps incorrectly) as my balls being filled with semen (quite different than my genitalia engorged with blood from edging). It's as if I have a fully loaded gun. One emission and all that is lost For me, this is often followed by both the temptation to MO (to have the full orgasmic experience and get it all out of my system) and the temptation to edge (to reload the gun, so to speak). Experience shows me that I get the best results if I just wait it out, yet I have yielded to temptation to M, MO or edge on many occasions, often leading to relapse. My most recent relpase with M (no O) just a few days ago was, in part, a consequence of having had an O during sex with my partner some two weeks ago.
Kinda curious, how much did you ejaculate? If it's completely spontaneous I would imagine not too much.
Not a lot at all. I tried my best to stop before it happened but the orgasm came on so quickly there wasn't much else I could do but sit there and have it happen. As I was not touching myself there was very little sensation and I think thats why I feel such an insane urge to PMO now. Like my body wants me to "finish the job."
You’ve smashed it getting this far! What’s your actual goal? Get yourself a hot escort or 2! Think you’ve earned a treat!
Thanks, I understand the sentiment but I'm not an escort kinda guy. I do want to have sex but with someone I care about. Yep, I never feel relieved for long when I PMO.