Hey lads. I've got a question. Ever sense I got my gf I've noticed I never get erect when we cuddle and kiss. I'll get like half/3/4 sometime depending on what's happening. We're waiting till marriage so we don't go too far but I've just noticed that I get a lot of precum from just kissing or whatever yet I never really get hard. I always thought it was supposed to be the other way around. I'm probably overthinking this but I just thought I'd ask if anyone has noticed this before. In the past when I jerk it I would get erect first and then get a little PC but with her I get a ton of PC but not hard. Could this be a pied thing? I'm 30 fays into nofap and used for 10 year everyday before.
Are you at 30 days without an orgasm? This happened to me quite a bit when I first stopped (after many years of daily PMO) and as my slips got farther and farther in-between, it would happen sometimes when I was completely flaccid. In fact, at one point when I had about 30 days, I ejaculated while completely flaccid!! In short, your body was releasing fluids regularly for a long time, now it's finding other ways to let them out.
I will often have PC and not be fully hard. So I'm not sure how unusual it is. I know some guys have a lot and some have little to none. I wouldn't worry about having it if you're soft, I think it depends on your mental stimulation. You may be turned on without a full erection and it's enough for the PC.