I will probably be leaving this community soon (maybe Sunday?) given I've rebooted successfully. It's been fun and I plan to never look at P for the rest of my life. My SO is very happy with how things are going and our intimacy has grown exponentially. I still plan to M from time to time without P or fantasizing as I have been doing successfully with her knowledge and support of this. When I started I was Ming maybe 3-4x/day and usually for hours and hours, so I've come a long way. The fantasies have melted away from my thoughts, I have zero desire to look at P. My SO even looks at me in amazement whenever we are watching a movie and I steer my eyes away from p subs like sexual scenes. No superpowers, but I feel happier to have control over this aspect of my life.
Good job, mate. You will surely go on with the momentum and create much happiness in your life. Stay vigiliant, always remember that there has been a dark past and a big cost with it, but don't dwell on it. All the best to you and your partner, we are proud of you! Be proud, but stay humble.
I'll do my best, I spend too much time on here. Time to be more productive. Maybe I'll chime in much less often I never expected them to, but just letting others know. But I think the experience can be different for different people
You will, my best advice would be to really convince yourself that this is what you want. Also get rid of social media. Good luck!