Be honest (ladyboy/ladyboy porn

Reading your post the first thing comes to my mind is I would not want to share a prison cell with you.

I don't know if you're trolling as I recall you talking about transgendered people' months ago. Girls and guys are not really that different looking, IMO, at least not clothed most of the difference is makeup. Most of us guys are turned on by makeup and plastic surgery and guys can dress up like girls and look just like them. We see some transgendered person dressed up in makeup we might find him attractive. That being said it's still a guy and sex with this person is gay sex no matter how much or how many people want to say otherwise. I'll assume you're not trolling and that you have been struggling with an addiction to transgendered person porn. you got to stop watching this crap and stop thinking about it. Make up your mind your not gonna do gay sex and be done watching this transgendered person porn it will corrupt your mind and could lead you down a path of terrible regret.

 

If you'd like to do it, just do it. Just make sure you use safety. Heard that STDs are more risky on anals. I believe that after doing something we always ended up with "oh i"m definitely gonna do that again" or "oh that sucks i wont do that anymore." Would you be okay if you get addicted to it later? I mean, asses are tighter than the real pussies. I'm afraid you wont get pleased by pussies later since it's looser than asses.

 

That's what they want you to believe. And if that's your philosophy, why not have sex with a llama? Or a sheep? I can't tell you how many gay guys used to answer my personal ads with comments like "a mouth is a mouth." No, it isn't.

Correction: as long as he is submissive.

Sounds to me like the desire is definitely there.

I've never acted out with a transgendered person, but here's what I can tell you: the minute you open that door, you'll be making it easier to open again, and again, and again. My addiction progressed just like that:

"I'm going to wait until I'm married to have sex." Then I had sex.
"Well, I've had sex, but I'll never do it again." I did it again.
"Well, at least I'm in a committed relationship." But then I started having casual sex.
"Well, it's not like I'm having anonymous sex." But then I was.
"It's not like I'm acting out with couples or groups." But then I was.
"It's not like I've been unfaithful in my relationships." But then I was.

There's a reason they say "curiosity killed the cat." My advice: Don't open that door.

 

Moral code aside this is perfectly true, as it true for every barnyard animal. And there is every chance you could meet a sex addicted transgendered person who has figured out that a dick is a dick. And you could both rut like pigs until the cows come home, and it could be great fun while you're doing it.

I've traveled quite a bit and met people who've slept with transgendered person prostitutes. After a few beers they'll explain that they developed a preference for ladyboys over female prostitutes for the single reason that ladyboys often enjoy it whereas females seldom do and it is purely a transactional encounter. Again, moral code notwithstanding, that makes perfect sense.

So I would just add that imho hedonism is not defensible and we can't avoid adding our moral code into the mix. And while our moral codes may differ, they probably, deep down, don't differ by that much. I think we have to respect this moral code or natural human law or whatever we call it that believes in some sense of right and wrong. And that demands that every encounter we have with other humans - whether straight, gay, bi, whatever must distinguish humanistic behavior from bestial behavior.

If you meet an attractive ladyboy and she finds you attractive then there is absolutely nothing wrong with the two of you having fun together provided there is some human characteristic - at a bare minimum mutual respect - to the encounter.

Doing it because "a hole is a hole" or to tick it off some to-do list, or anything similar, imho, does not come up to this minimum criteria. Our older self must be able to respect our younger self. And we never forget.

Just my two penneth worth...

 

People are people. Individuals are individuals and not just members of one group or another. So to me a trans person is a person, not a trans person. One of their traits is certainly that they are trans. But this is not their only trait, and there is nothing to say it is their most important one.

I do think about THAT number. It is very, very high. And if I have understood the data correctly this figure only increases for people who go through with transition surgery.

Before we can do something to reduce that number we need to understand why it is so high in the first place. Why do you believe the number is so shockingly high? What solutions do you think would help bring it down to the background "normal" rate?

 

What a great post Hope you are coping ok with everything Please feel fee to contact me if you need to chat about anything at anytime

 

"a hole is a hole" are you serious bro? Sorry, but I just got really disgusted by reading this.
I never watched transgendered person/gay porn, that's something I always escaped from
but if you find that attractive and you want to try it IRL then go ahead

 

I'm a straight male and I don't regret having had sex with trans girls - and there have been a few. We respond to femininity even if it is an approximation of femininity, and gay men will respond to masculinity.

I will say though that some of the fetishising we do as a result of porn will diminish as we remove ourselves from porn.

Transexuals are people, they have feelings and all the other stuff that everyone else has -- fetishising them is reducing them to objects, and they're not objects.

if you like her, then like her, and that's fine - but using someone for a fix, well that's worth looking at.

Also, homophobia and transphobia are a bigger sickness.

 

Every single human being be them white, black, Asian, straight, gay, bisexuel, asexual, pansexual, transgender has the right to identify how they wish and they deserve a basic level of human decency and respect and no one has the right to tell them they are wrong or that they can't identify how they feel. Others should respect that regardless of their own personal feelings.

 

I'm not even going to respond to the obvious trans and homophobic comments that some people have demonstrated, because life's too short to stress myself out over prehistoric attitudes.

But thank you. I have to admit to being guilty of the fetishisation aspect -- so I'm not exactly awesome, but at least I'm owning my shit and trying to move forward.

 

Biologically yes, but that can be changed (at least on the level of physical appearance).

Biology in terms of sex, and identity in terms of gender are not the same thing - the latter is a construct of society.

Plus to use terms like "pretending" is disempowering - to most people who identify as trans, there's no "pretending" about it.

 

Do you want to blur the lines? The moment you enter that world the more difficult it becomes to establish baseline again. No judgement but like you said when you begin to think a hole is a hole, a hole becomes just that.

If you are concerned about this changing your life, well it may not ruin it honestly. But you know what? it's going to be damn hard to reconcile your identity and what you are doing. I'm not sure your reason for NoFap but maybe when you are not under the compulsion of T-Porn you can asses whether this is an authentic desire and not just acting out.

Hope this doesnt come across as preachy. All the best