Be honest (ladyboy/ladyboy porn

This world is sick.

 

In my humble opinion, having a strong desire to have sex with someone is inherently healthy. However, to me your description sounds like you aren't even considering this person to even be a human. Just an object. "a hole is a hole". THAT can't be healthy. Since I've been there, I feel your having sex with a trans girl is simply personifying your addiction. Different story if you met the person, developed a genuine attraction for them.....then had sex. I hope that helps.

 

Seek professional help if this is fetish induced- NOW. That's all I can say.

 

OK let's imagine you got the hots for a post op transgendered person, there's literally no difference from a normal regular girl, so why not just go after a normal regular girl instead.

 

A very long time ago.....in fact, before I even really looked at porn (and certainly before I was addicted) I found trans women attractive. I dated one for a while. S(he) was fantastic.

My caution to you, though, is that if all you are trying to do is to find a place to dump the load, that ain't healthy. Again, I was there....so I know the feeling.

 

You can have a partner who is Ladyboy/Trans... like it and not screw up your life...that's fine. But you mustn't treat people like sex objects.

I hope you are just using blunt language and are a decent person.

 

If I fell in love with one, maybe. Other than that I guess not.

 

No problems with the sex. No STD's. No hassles. In fact, excellent sex. The unhealthy part I am referring to is that I feel it's unhealthy to have sex with someone you have no personal feelings for. Again, I have done it, so I am not judging.

Believe it or not, the transwoman person made a tremendous girlfriend. But I genuinely liked her. I moved to SoCal for work about twenty years ago, that caused the break up.

I'd describe it this way: If you (as a black man) met a white woman you really liked, would there be any problem having sex with her? Not in my mind. So if you develop feelings for ANY woman.....black, white, trans.....I see it as irrelevant. But ANY version of a prostitute....well, I have to differ.

 

Please be respectful of other posters, there is nothing wrong with being Bisexual or Homosexual- you comment is homophobic and posting it in a thread where people are expressing attraction/love for trans people can only be construed as flamebait IMO and adding #justmyopinion- doesn't give you the right to tell other posters they are sick or that they have problems.

 

Honest to god I'm glad we got a pro gay mod now. The number of homophobic posts getting let off because of religion or their opinion was getting on my tits. To the op is this a fetish or something more? Just because you're black and got tats doesn't mean shit.

 

Just my two cents. I understand what you are going through, although I haven't been through it myself. This sounds like a branch off of HOCD, you watch transgendered person porn enough your mind will tell you that this is what you want. My advice would be to quit porn for at least 90 days and see how you feel. I have seen other people on this site that start to have HOCD and go through with having sex with a gender they were not originally attracted to and when they did finally recover, that experience had some lasting effects in the psyche. Point is, recover and you will find where you lean towards and probably be happier with the experience.