If you look through my post history, you will see that I started my attempt at NoFap 2 years ago. The issue was essentially that I had a strong femdom fetish and it was the only thing that turned me on. ''Normal sex'' was alien to me, it just didn't attract me. Well now after a 4 month solid streak, with a short albeit depressing and nearly soul-destroying flatline, I emerged with a ''normal sex drive'' Real girls and real sex is what I strive for. I always used to wonder when I was a kid why was everyone into sex when I just watched my fetish videos, well today I had sex and loved it. I have no desire to indulge in my fetish anymore. Hardmode NoFap works, but I really had to experience a soul destroying flatline, but I beat the flatline and now have a normal sex drive.
You're awesome! Upon reading this, I felt, "This is who I can be." This story inspires me to keep moving forward with this notion of abstinence. Thank you for sharing this!
Couple quick questions... Did you address the underlying issues that lead you to this particular fetish? Do you go to therapy or did you just abstain and use nofap tools? And thank you @SuperFan
Congratulations. Could you summarize your history? I tried clicking through some of your posts, but there were links to other forums and it was unclear which fetishes you had, and which were developed with porn use.
Nah I never went to a therapist. I considered it at one point, but I didn't need it in the end. I still have certain remenants left of the femdom, I think I like it when a girl chokes me when she rides me, but I'm certainly not dependent on that to get off, just think of it as a ''topping'' on the pizza. I just abstained really. I guess what I mean is vanilla sex, you know, penetrating a woman - opposed to fetishes which don't involve sex, yet still elicit arousal.
2 years ago I started NoFap. At that point, I had a fetish which was the only way for me to get off - it was a femdom fetish involving mixed wrestling. Well I didn't want it that way, so I kept trying to do streaks but never made it past a few weeks. Basically at university I spent the first 2 years losing out on opportunities to have sex due to this fetish, I still have a few more years left but I just couldn't waste any more time. I hate living a life of regret, so I did NoFap properly, and my fetish is mostly gone, most of my horniness is towards sex.
This is amazing. You've given hope to us all, lol. I too have some pretty weird fetishes that I need to rid myself of.
That's how I summarize my NoFap streak really - a story of hope. Read this flatline post I made a few weeks ago for more insight - https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.p...wn-i-dont-know-what-to-do.121901/#post-984487 Now after the above, read this - https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.p...ence-after-coming-out-of-the-flatline.125923/ What they say about NoFap, the flatline, the superpowers, it's real - all of it. I doubted it for a long time, but it actually worked.
"Soul-Destroying" Man This Defines that you have struggled,proud of you.Good Luck For Your Future Buddy.
That's amazing man, I'm currently in an extremely "soul-destroying" flatline, as you said. And it feels like all hope is lost, but I'm trucking on and I hope to reach your stage too. I'd like to ask, how different is 2 months from 4 months honestly? Because it feels like the initial benefits all died down. I no longer have energy like I used to 20-30 days into the streak. Any insight and tips?
Amazing! Happy for you when I will have s again I know it will be good and normal and i will make it right like you. Thanks for your words, they are very motivational
Wow this is awesome, I also really hope that NoFap destroys my fucking obsession about some fetishes.