Hello all, a 55 year od married male who has had ED on and off during my life and as the physical side of our relationship died porn really took over. ED was never a problem with porn but in the last 4 years anxiety has started to play a big problem In my life and ED is also becoming a problem with porn. Morning wood thankfully is still ok. I tried rebooting just over a year ago and lasted around 4 weeks, no p.m.o and found a huge change in the sensitivity down below, this was too great and ended up going back to pmo. Have been seeing a couple of masseuse girls who do full body massage including HR but that was no good totally flacid. Now on holiday surrounded by asian girls and not a twitch in the pants, so have decide I need to do something. I have read that PIED can be the reason for all manner of mental disorders including anxiety. You can't be serious. I hope its true. So have now been no m.o for 10 days and no p for 4 days. Had some strong urges a few days ago to m.o but resisted. Will follow the suggestions on this site. Will continue to have the massages without HR to gauge any improvement. Wish me luck and will keep you posted.
Welcome to the forum - it's never too late to quit and you'll find plenty of other people here who have recognised a correlation between their ED and porn, and also anxiety. 10 days is a really impressive start though - make a goal and focus on reaching it, say 30 days perhaps? Then see about extending it. Best of luck!
Welcome to the forum! As a wife I am a little interested as to why you only mentioned your wife once in that whole paragraph and only in the context of saying you are married. You mention women outside of your marriage but not the woman within it. I don't mean to pry but perhaps you can shed more light on this and why you do not seek sex with your wife.
Simples really, wife went through the menopause In her early 40's and lost what interest she had in sex. We tried to keep it alive then I started to have psychological ED. Which just about killed it. I suggested seeing a councillor but she said there was no need as she put it 'we've gone without for this long'. I did try a phycologist but all that did was make their pocket bigger with my cash. Don't get me wrong we have a good relationship but no intermacy. So this is why I've ended up here.
