You are not alone

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by lilnavadaa, Jul 29, 2014.

  1. lilnavadaa

    lilnavadaa Fapstronaut

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    Hello, I truly am happy YOU are here. New? Have a problem with pmo? Your in a well place.

    First, don't think now matter what, nobody knows what you go through.

    Your parents, friends etc don't believe you? You are not alone.
    Can't stop jacking off to porn? You are not alone.
    Absolutely sick and tired of porn? You are not alone.
    Major depression and/or severe worsening anxiety? You are not alone.
    Want to feel free and live life? Life like it was before porn? You are not alone.
    Relapse after relapse after relapse after relapse......? You are not alone.
    In despair? You are not alone.
    Things getting worse now that you're quitting? You are not alone.
    Going through ED? You are not alone.

    Bro, or lady, YOU ARE NOT ALONE. I'm super happy your here and want to leave porn behind and start living life. Know that there's nothing you have been through that someone hasn't, and might be still, going through right now.
    NEVER, EVER give up!!!! This can be extremely hard or not, but it can be done. This can and will most likely make you stronger. We are going through something the world would laugh at. Something the world doesn't and can't understand. But we do. Now you do too.

    My brothers and sisters, are you ready for a new life? Well, get ready! Whether its 3 weeks, months, or even years, a new life awaits!

    YOU are in my prayers. I want you to beat this as much as I want myself to. We need more success stories here my friends!

    Well, to close I would suggest that you read read read (learn) and to physically write down commitments of things to do and to not. Keep a journal and write in it for a while. Write when you relapse and learn from it in all its angles.

    And as many of us say here, STAY STRONG!
     
  2. BetterPerson

    BetterPerson Fapstronaut

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    Thank you, it is a great post and made me feel I'm not the worst person in this planet and I want to get better of the whole thing.Me and others made the right choice to join up here because we are doing it already even if many have relapsed, we will keep going further until we overcome this.
    Thanks again,you have my gratitude.
     
  3. Hotshot

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  4. lilnavadaa

    lilnavadaa Fapstronaut

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    :) it brings me joy to help
     
  5. Mark_tetra

    Mark_tetra Fapstronaut

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    I apreciate this message...

    For many years I have collected dvd porn... commercial porn and downloading porn of internetto have an obscene collection and the last year (2013)was the year I broke my dvd with my own hands an I felt like commited suicide, of course I admit I prayed to Jesus Christ to give me the courage to break every dvd and told him I liked the porn and the delicious sensation I had every time I watched and feeling the pleasure. Japanese girls always have been my favorite, thai, filipino... "teens" and now I don't have physical dvd with videos recorden in them.

    But now I advised and I just have resisted 3 months and maybe 8-9 months of have been fallen again in porn and M so I want to be honest whoever read this... I'm just here for fear... afraid of the bible and every thing in it related to god. When I don't watch P and don't M I feel like I'm missing something I need... so basically my big trouble is resist 1-3 months and wath it just once to start again because I fall so deeply and enjoy to do it until that finished and start to have regrets but only for the bibble If I didn't knew that in my life probably that wouldn't matter to me but it's not this case...

    Now I'm starting and use this forum to report anything I feel in order to leaving porn at leat and then try something with masturbation... 3 days no PMO how many days can I resist? I'm praying so I hope it would be useful this time.

    Thank you for reading...
     
  6. lilnavadaa

    lilnavadaa Fapstronaut

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    On my signature there a couple verses from revelation that can scare you away !!! God says to quit being apart of it now so that we don't share in her punishment!