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Wouldn't quiting make me hypersensitive to stimulation?

Discussion in 'Dating during a Reboot' started by HopingForTheBest, Jul 16, 2023.

  1. HopingForTheBest

    HopingForTheBest Fapstronaut

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    I'm so used to watching porn and masturbating multiple times a day. I've been trying to quit for ages, but whenever I do quit for sometime, even a week or so, when I do masturbate I require a lot less stimulation to reach my peak and I ejaculate a lot faster. Now if I totally quit wouldn't this affect how long I last with my girlfriend when I'm with her?
     
  2. Perfectionst

    Perfectionst Fapstronaut

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    Hello.

    If you totally quit and and it's been a long time since you last had sex, it's natural to last little the first times you're with your girlfriend. But just as masturbation, you'll last longer and longer over time.

    If you don't quit, the question isn't how much you'll last when having real sex, but whether you'll be able to have it, to get aroused enough in the first place.

    I understand your concern, we men feel a lot of pressure to last long when having sex. But at least on my experience, women value other thing more than duration. And anyway as I said, over time you will have the ability to make it last longer and longer.
     
  3. HopingForTheBest

    HopingForTheBest Fapstronaut

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  4. Amalenny

    Amalenny Fapstronaut

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    That's one of the few benefits with (P)MO that you last longer (too long). When I did nofap around early 20's I would cum very quick with my girlfriend. Now ten years later I doubt it though, even if I quit for months, but who knows. Maybe some MO can be okay if that happens.
     
  5. No offense, but why are you watching/need porn if you have a girlfriend? Were you watching from before you met her?
     
  6. HopingForTheBest

    HopingForTheBest Fapstronaut

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    I've been addicted to porn for over 10 years. Started watching when I was 11, I'm 24 now.
     
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  7. I found porn around that age myself. Lucky for you your wife seems understanding enough.
     
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