Women aren't objects

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Supremehokage, Sep 13, 2017.

  1. Supremehokage

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    I'll admit it. Recovering from porn is hard. When you've seen it since puberty. the moment where you transition from a boy to a man and your developing brain is at its most sensitive. It can cause you to think that things that aren't real. For starters real sex isn't like the way it's portrayed in porn. All women aren't going to participate in the digusting things that porn shows. That's honestly one of the reasons I quit porn because that thing distorts your mind into thinking that women are just objects nothing else. That women are sexual objects used as a commodity and once you've fulfilled your desires they mean absolutely nothing to you. I can resist the need for porn but the one thing I find the most challenging is training my brain to understand that what happens in porn isn't real and that it's purely fantasy realistic sex isn't full of disgusting acts it's beautiful it isn't gross.
     
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  2. Third_Eye

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    You just gotta distract your mind from porn being portrayed as "real." But i get what you're saying, man. It's hard to quit something without sacrifice. Porn is there, on purpose, to brainwash people into being sex-crazed, perverted animals. It even makes you develop weird fetishes. Because of porn, I developed a fetish where I get aroused by:
    Girls peeing in the toilet, and on the floor (with their butts showing, and stuff like that).
     
  3. Yep I totally agree. It is designed to hook people and it does it's job well.
     
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    Yea man Its hard but you just gotta endure you've got to go days I mean DAYZ without seeing that stuff and then your brain will slowly heal itself you just can't give up.
     
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  5. Third_Eye

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    Just don't relapse, and have a great strategy to prevent you from fapping! :)
     
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  6. Third_Eye

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    I'm sure women would appreciate your way of thinking! :)
     
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    Yea man I mean I'm a passionate guy I love romance I love women am I too passionate yea but frankly I am who i am lol. When I look at a woman I like it's hard for me to imagine ever doing something as disgusting as things portrayed in porn.
     
  8. Third_Eye

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    Same here, man. Honestly, I'm not interested in sex with ANYBODY. But if I did have sex, it'd only be with the woman I truly love. Women are beautiful, attractive individuals, no doubt about it.
     
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    Exactly!!! Ma dawg i think we just became best friends!! Lmao yea man don't get me wrong if a girl I found really attractive proposed sex I'd probably try my hardest to make it as special as possible. That's how you win a girl over you gotta make em feel like they're absolutely unique and unforgettable but most of the time id probably save myself for my true love.
     
  10. Third_Eye

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    That's true. And it's cool that I met you too, bro. And I'm only 4 years younger than you, believe it or not. And, as far as sex, it's best to wait. It's better to wait than to rush. And you gotta always show that you care, and love her.
     
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    True true bro. I can't put it into words but women truly are special creatures. They have this power to nurture and care and to create and I honestly feel like there is no, absolutely no substitute to the tender touch and warmth of a woman. A good woman anyway.
     
  12. Third_Eye

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    So true. Any woman that is special to me, I'd be happy to make her the mother of my future children. Woman are beyond words, when it comes to their friendliness, attractiveness, comprehension, and feelings for certain people. If you want, you can PM me and we can keep talking about this, unless you're cool with me talking about these things on this thread.
     
  13. seaguy44

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    Absolutely. That's why I miss dating women. I'm not dating a woman right now during the reboot. They are INCREDIBLY sweet and have warmth to their energy. One girl I have dated wanted to make a bowtie out of the blue? Why? Her reply: Why not? I like you.. I was just blown away by her sweetness.
     
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  14. Third_Eye

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    Women are amazing people, bro. :)
    It just makes me wanna hug one tightly. LOL
     
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  15. Third_Eye

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    It also makes me wanna lift her up in the air, and swing her around in a circular direction, without hurting her. LOL
     
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  16. Third_Eye

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    LOL

    I'm not trying to spam you, dude. I'm just trying to be funny.
     
  17. Supremehokage

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    That's why I love short girls don't get me wrong I love tall girls too but just try doing that on a tall chick lmao
     
  18. Third_Eye

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    Just lift weights, get biceps, and lifting taller women shouldn't be a problem. LOL
     
  19. Supremehokage

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    Lol true that that's why I do my morning pushups got to get that swole on!
     
  20. Third_Eye

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    I've been doing push ups since I was 7 (I'm currently 15). Now all I gotta do is wait 3 more years so I can lift some 5 pound dumbells, for starters. LOL