women and sex toys (venting)

this is a crazy post. Women dont want to fulfill themselves with sex toys. Unlike men, women have a far greater desire for love and thus seek out men. Also sex toys are static, it doesnt grow and there is no movement. Men can provide far greater value than those toys, even the most average man. Lastly, its not always about the orgasm. Imagine the happy feeling u feel when ur storking before O'ing. Now aplify that by 10 and thats what women feel when a penis is inside them. Thus, its not always about the orgasm for them.

 

I don't think the intent of the sex toy industry is to destroy relationships. I think the intent is to make money. FWIW, I'm a married man of 10 years with a very healthy sex life. My wife and I both enjoy sex toys and incorporate them in to our bedroom activities all the time. This is fairly common in the western world. I would have never thought or even considered the idea that sex toy manufacturers are trying to destroy relationships. Ironically, they have actually made ours better. Just my opinion and experience.

 

Let that be motivation for us guys. The better we are at having sex with our partners, the less they will want to use a toy.

 

Toys aren't always a replacement. That's a huge misconception. For some, it's an alternative or a supplement. My wife and I love incorporating them in to our bedroom activities. It keeps things exciting, different, and fresh.

 

You're fortunate that you have a wife that's open minded. I don't think that that's a common thing to do, though (no offence). You're very blessed. However, if I was with a girl and she wanted to incorporate toys, I would feel like I wasn't good enough to satisfy her. I hear what you're saying, but I respectfully have a different opinion.

 

Completely understand. In the western world it's very common, especially in my age bracket. I'm in my 40s and feel zero threat or incompetencies...it's just some added excitement.

Communication is key. Not sure how old you are, if you're married, or what your status is, but having a healthy relationship requires great communication. If I felt inadequate I would say something to my wife. If I was doing something wrong, she would happily let me know. That's what it's all about...healthy communication.

Wish you the best bro!

 

I don't know why, but when I read this I thought of this...


In all seriousness, most women, who are interested in men, would prefer a healthy, caring, and trustworthy man over a sex toy. Anyway, everything you said could be said of men who look at porn. I'm sure women are wondering how they're supposed to compete with digital harems that deliver unrealistic expectations to such a degree that men pick porn over them.

Thankfully, women aren't expecting us to compete with sex toys, they simply want us to be of good character and communicate with them.

 

Yea, my wife struggles to orgasm (probably has never orgasmed in her life) and so we bought her a wand so that she could explore herself down there and see if she could relax herself and slowly grow more confident to build up to an orgasm. She has a serious mental block that prevents her from reaching an orgasm.

So yea, I’m guessing what she has is very rare and not common to most women. About 20% of women in surveys say they have never organized during sex. So yea…idk what the percentage of them also can’t orgasm from masturbation, but yea, my wife is one of them.

Maybe that’s also a reason as to why she doesn’t want to have sex. It’s not enjoyable at all to her.

Just wonderful.

Sorry for the rant boys.

 

Yeah, I agree with George Jetson here....I doubt that the toy.manufacturers are out to destroy relationships. Many women have toys as a release but I think it's almost surely very rare that women use them for the exact same reasons us addicts use ours. Some women may want those things, but I think for the most part that it's just a toy. At the end of the day, they probably want what no sex toy could ever provide, companion ship. A trusting relationship with someone who goes out of their way to show love for them. Someone who will care for them, protect then, and provide for them. You really think that women will throw away all that other stuff just for some elaborate sex toy? If so, I respectfully disagree.