Woman complaining about not climaxing

Almost all women can climax from some type of sexual contact, however it's true that a significant number of women do not climax from vaginal penetration only. Keep in mind that there are many ways to stimulate a woman sexually. Consider my favorite paraphrase (IDK where it came from): You've got ten fingers and a tongue, so there's no excuse not to satisfy a woman.

 

I can relate to your question. My partner needs lots of sex. But she is not able get orgasm through penetration.

I use fingers but want to get her to orgasms with penetration.

 

Sometimes different positions might help stimulate the G-spot. This also depends on your anatomy and the angle of erection. None of this is guaranteed, but worth trying. There are also sex toys that might help such as a vibrating penis ring.

 

I don't have a proper explanation, but I believe it's mostly natural variations in sensitivity and anatomy. These women usually orgasm with clitoral stimulation.

I believe excessive masturbation can reduce sensitivity but I don't think that has much effect on whether a woman can have a vaginal orgasm. I am not an expert or educated on this subject, these are just things I've read (I've had a small number of female partners). I hope this thread becomes more popular. I welcome a female perspective, or one with greater knowledge of female anatomy and sexual function.

 

When I started dating my girl in a few occasions I made her cum through penetrative sex which didn't even last that long. But for some reason now that has become impossible.
But as I get to know her body better I get really good at giving her orgasm through oral sex and fingering the clit.
My theory is that if a girl's very used to orgasm through clitoral stimulation, it makes it harder for her to reach orgasm through vaginal sex.

You shouldn't conclude anything because every girl is different. I've met girl who couldn't get off from clit stimulation and need penetrative sex or fingering.
I'm pretty sure vagina has fewer nerves than the head of the penis, which is more equivalent to the clit.

 

My partner loves to have pain during sex. What's the meaning of this ?

 

There are a few opinions on this thread that I find to be hilarious, respectfully XD. I'll share my experience and thoughts.

I have been with the whole spectrum of women. I had one who could orgasm a time or two each time we had sex, without any clitoral stimulation. I had one who required a solid 20 minutes of clitoral stimulation, sometimes combined with penetration in order to reach orgasm (sometimes it wouldn't happen at all). Then, the last chick I was with would literally get off 5-10 times within like 15 minutes.

But, women who may not get off during sex may (and probably doesn't) have nothing to do with the problems that us men have (like ED/PIED/overstimulation etc) It could simply be because they don't masturbate - hard to believe, I know, but not all women know HOW to reach an orgasm simply because they've never had one. OR it could be that they require clitoral stimulation or something else, but they're too shy too ask you to help.