Will my strong erections come back

It was a Friday morning, and I woke up feeling on top of the world. Not a single care in the world. I'd come out of my 4th flatline 3 days prior and for the past 3 days running had felt amazing. Excalibur was back with a vengeance and greeted me each and every morning with a full salute. I was back.

I headed into work and sat at my desk to be greeted by Sarah, the office admin. To this day I do not know what it was but there was something different about Sarah that day. I couldn't keep my eyes off of her, and she couldn't seem to keep her eyes off of me. After moments of formalities she asked what I was doing after work. In a blink, I responded with "nothing, how about we go for drinks?" her face lit up and she nodded.

The rest of the day went swimmingly well. My mind was back to being sharp and clear as it once was. Ideas would flow through my mind like a river at any given moment. More importantly, the mere sight of a beautiful female would cause my junk to awaken from it's slumber and stand at attention. The problem was more so keeping it down. After months of abstaining it felt like a dream.

For me, the dysfunction disappeared gradually. If you're attentive and know yourself well enough, you will begin to notice slight changes in your thoughts and emotions prior. Physically penis size and girth increased gradually. Balls hung lower and seemed fuller, libido only increased once out of the final flatline. But this was all gradual and led up to.

When I begun NoFap I had also hit a point of 0% success with erections. That lasted for a good while too. I think it's important to understand that there are different levels of NoFap and depending on which you take, depends on how soon you experience results. For me at the time it was hard mode or nothing.

 

Maybe go with no porn and masturbation and see how you get on. It could be the case that your reboot doesn't need to be long for recovery. But I would say be prepared, things could take longer than expected at which point you want to be mentally ready to fight the good fight. It's tough when you have a partner that expects sex regularly and you don't want to disappoint. I have my fingers crossed for you!

I have a separate question for you that is slightly off topic if that's ok?

What was the vasectomy procedure/recovery like? Are there many or any differences when it comes to intercourse?

 

They will, but if your situation is like mine it will be damn unpredictable. For example, last week I woke up 3 mornings in a row with rock hard morning wood. Since then, for the last 4-5 days, nada. And I haven't changed a single thing. My eating, drinking, sleep and exercise patterns haven't changed, I haven't gone back to P or MO'd, literally none of the contributing factors is different this week than last except my stress level at work (which ironically is lower this week) -- yet this week, no morning wood and a general lower overall level of horniness. Definitely not feeling as much like a man this week.

If you like routine and predictability well buckle in cuz it can be a long and frustrating ride. The phrase is "trust the process" and that's what I plan to do even though current state is frustrating as hell.

 

Definitely sounds frustrating lol, good luck bro

 

Had the same probs before. Good luck