Why to torture myself now ?

Because you do it once, you'll do it again, and again, and again.

You've turned it into a coping mechanism. It's an unhealthy coping mechanism. Same reason why you shouldn't do heroin every time you're depressed.

Just gotta keep chugging along!

 

It's your choice. Of course we all want to feel good. Unfortunately the joy out of masturbating usually is of more or less short time and the joy out of abstinence might be of much, much longer time. I rarely had a desperation fap. I know that periods of abstinence can lift me higher and higher - and that's the reason I registered here. It's all about joy and happiness - not punishment.

 

Yes and no. Me personally when I release and MO, I feel good doing it, but then after I feel sluggish and depressed. Since I've stopped I feel much happier and whatnot. Everyone has their own poison.

I feel like PMO is no different than any other drug that's used.

Here's another thing, when you can have sex, have sex. That's when the joy from O comes into play. However when you don't, then it's just not the same.

 

Surpressing our body's thoughts and desires?
This is what I call mind.
I prefer to follow my heart. If my heart is attracted by something really beautiful, all my attention will go in that direction and nothing has to be surpressed. I feel attracted by true love - not lust.

"Fapping is fine if you do it occasionally". Occasionaly? 3 times a week? And what is if I don't do it for 3 weeks? For most people fapping is a habit - and in my opinion not a good one. There is much more to experience in this life.

 

Do you want to be just like every other wanker out there?

 

There is no future in fapping. You'll eventually want to do it again and again and then re-introduce brain fog and become a useless zombie. I don't know what you want for your future but I know what I want for mine, and there's no room for fapping that's for sure.

 

I don't know about you, but I know myself. Once I start doing that, I will eventually want to go back to wanking it every morning. So for me, I'd just rather have real sex and no longer fap.

 

Depends on how bad your case is. Some people need over 2 years of reboot.

 

I don't think hookers are a good idea, but that's just me.

 

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