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Why more men struggle with porn than women

Discussion in 'Dating during a Reboot' started by nfpexperiment, Apr 15, 2022.

  1. nfpexperiment

    nfpexperiment Fapstronaut

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    Hi,

    So the reason more men struggle with porn than women is because women can easily get sex for free,so why watch porn right ? while men we must kinda work for it, sex is almost never free for men, even when you are married, the men always pays for it in status, wealth, being funny etc. Let us say things like it is.

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  2. SquidCook

    SquidCook Fapstronaut

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    I think there is a couple of reasons for that:

    1. A common criticism of porn is that it is male-centric and focuses on male and/or what feels good for the men with little regard to the enjoyment of women. In addition, a disturbing amount of pornography involves rather violent behaviour towards women. So women are less likely to view porn because they see it as boring or downright offensive.
    2. A second point is that the negative effects of porn addiction may be ignored in women for one reason or another. Women don't suffer from erectile dysfunction so they can still have (penetrative) intercourse. Low sensitivity of genitals? Difficulties in achieving an orgasm is seen as relatively normal for women. Problems with getting aroused? It is generally accepted that it takes some effort for women to get in the mood. Therefore, a woman suffering from the side effects of a porn addiction may not realize that porn is the cause.

    Also, while it might be true that women can get sex more easily that does not mean that the sex they have is great. Casual sex is actually not all that great for most women as a significant amount of men do not really care about the pleasure of a woman they barely know. So, there's that.
     
  3. depeche69

    depeche69 Fapstronaut

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    Women don't have the same sex drive like men.
     
  4. MarioCorrelos

    MarioCorrelos Fapstronaut

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    Besides the abovementioned reasons, women usually are driven by desire, whereas men respond to stimulation. This means that men react to external stimuli such as porn whenever they feel like, but for women it works differently, since their sexual desire comes from within, and once it comes they don't need much more than that desire itself and their imagination.
     
  5. nfpexperiment

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    The problem with women, is that they have higher standards for looks in a man to be aroused visually. It has never changed through the centuries, think of henry cavill of superman or Jason mamao, women get aroused by them.Men have less higher stamdards regarding looks, they will have sex with most average women. See rationale male book for this info.
     
  6. Legacy of Lost Soul

    Legacy of Lost Soul Fapstronaut

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    True, they have much higher. Lots of our mental cobstructs are lie.
     
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  7. skybrowser

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    Honestly I find it hard to believe that women have a bigger sex drive. In addition to the above reasons also consider men have much more testosterone than women which is also a factor.
    But I'm curious what makes you say this?
     
  8. depeche69

    depeche69 Fapstronaut

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    Thats not true. If so, then the world Population will explode.
    The natural goal for a men is to have Sex with as much women as possible.
    For the women is to get Sex not the problem. The problem is to choose the best male.
     
  9. Legacy of Lost Soul

    Legacy of Lost Soul Fapstronaut

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    Sex drive is the topic. Woman have much more sex than men.
     
  10. Ngo27

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    Both sexes may have similar levels of libido but women tend to refrain from expressing sexual desires like men do due to cultural differences. Men behave more impulsively and get visually stimulated so porn triggers those parts.
     
  11. Rene75

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    Its hard to tell who has a higher sex drive, men or women, or who is better at suppressing it. Its all subjective so hard to measure.
    There are stories about women who got testosterone and noticed a significant upswing in sex drive and getting easily sexual triggered.
     
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  12. OhWhenThe

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    Because it's infinitely easier for them to get. And why is it so much easier? Because men want it so much more.
     
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  13. Legacy of Lost Soul

    Legacy of Lost Soul Fapstronaut

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    No. If man has sex 10 times a day, he dies soon. Woman? Easy. Leaving this topic tho.
     

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