Why Losing Your Virginity to A Hooker is Bad

Oh boy, well I’m 58 divorced was with my wife 25 years married 20 my impulse control issues destroyed my marriage ADD
has caused me horrible issues since child hood I see a therapist now and take 40mgs of strattera now it’s helped so much, my problem really began after my divorce 2 years ago, I got bought my own home and seen one prostitute that was it, I could not stop, the thing that ruined my marriage was impulse buying my poor wife
who I still love couldn’t deal with it anymore.
I was getting a shot of dopamine from buying shit then from prostitutes I really hate the word escort it makes them seem like they have some status in society they don’t, I don’t care how much they cost, I warned a few guys on here about the perils of seeing even just one. No offense to our religious members but I truly believe once a sex addiction starts you have to want to change, seek therapy and get tested for ADD religion can also help I’m a follower of Zen Buddhism the teachings of Jesus and the Buddha are very similar, we all need a life outside of sex addiction, hobbies friends find your balance in life your passion. I have several
My dogs, horror movies, all things Batman haha weightlifting martial arts.
Im not interested in dating anymore so these things fulfill me, do I still think about
buying sex hell yes I do it’s so easy to do right that’s why I warn guys don’t even start, I added up what I spent on prostitutes in the last year and a half about $6000 dear god what great things I could have done to my house with that money.
Porn and buying sex these addiction like any are a black hole in your soul you will never fill it’s an all consuming cancer it will drain you of you finances and self esteem.
You will never be satisfied. But as Clint Eastwood said( A mans got to know his limitations. It’s all on you.

 

Now i got it. I thought sth different.

 

If you really want to get sex don't get a hooker, go on at least a 10 day streak and upgrade your look and try tinder. At 10 days you will feel more confident but don't let tinder define your worth. Women don't define you it's what you feel about yourself that defines you. Keep working on your passions but if you want a release every now and then try out your luck

 

dude your signature quote "“Our culture has filled our heads but emptied our hearts, stuffed our wallets but starved our wonder.
It has fed our thirst for facts but not for meaning or mystery. It produces "nice" people, not heroes.”― Peter Kreeft" is one of the best quotes ever

 

Why blame other when the decision is all yours? Grown up man

Why need 1000 reason for not doin it, you just need one,

I was wanted to do the same thing, and some user just told me that NoFap and hooker addict are way different dragon, if u want to fight two dragon thats my two cents

And i stopped juat like that !

What happen its happen, u need to move on fight the two dragon kill em be a champion

 

I lost my virginity at 17 to an escort, I didn't end up getting my first girlfriend until 24 and I regret not just letting it happen naturally. It isn't something that bothers me too much these days though, I've grown and learned from it, sometimes the situation is messy and that's the way it goes. If I could part advice it would be not to rush it.

 

I broke a huge dry spell (10+ years) to a very high end escort and it was the best thing that ever happened to me. It got me comfortable with sex, and my fetish, and now I am dating women, and participating in fetish conventions. She cheered me on the whole time, I just needed a push over the threshold. Now I am landing women that I would have daydreamed about before.

It's not all bad, it's just how you approach things.

 

You are going to fetish conventions...still haven't cured your issues. Bad advice

 

Hi can I send you a message and talk please? Thanks

 

Sex has to be earned

Thats what I tell to the folks who keep bothering me about "h00kers". To me that's stupid! The whole fun of sex is that another person is willing to share something intimate with you.