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Why it's Pointless to Argue Over the Merits of Nofap

Discussion in 'Self Improvement' started by RecoveringFapaholic, Jun 28, 2017.

  1. RecoveringFapaholic

    RecoveringFapaholic Fapstronaut

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    If you're a member of this community, it's likely because you're trying to overcome addiction to porn and or masturbation. You made the choice: and if others object, who cares? Don't argue why you're doing this. The person on the other line has probably already made up their mind. Arguing over the merits of nofap is a waste of time and energy. There will always be those who disagree: so don't worry about them and keep moving.

    I see these long-winded arguments in YouTube comments sections about the most insignificant things. These people get emotionally involved in topics that bear virtually no weight upon their daily lives. Nofap is no exception to this. People say that "nofap is bullshit" and "nofap benefits are just placebo" and even "nofap is for beta cucks." Those who support nofap try to argue with them to no avail. If nofap benefits you, keep doing it. If somebody thinks you're weird for doing nofap, what's the worst that can happen? Whatever it is, it's not nearly as bad as the effects of PMO (which are too lengthy for this post). You left PMO for a reason, so don't let some stranger on the internet hold you back.

    P.S. I find it quite laughable when people say "nofap is for beta cucks." I don't see anything particularly alpha about jerking off to pixels on a screen. In fact, I'm sure everybody's lost the true meaning of "Alpha" and "Beta." Hell, the goalposts are shifted on what constitutes an "Alpha" and a "Beta" so damn much that these terms carry almost no weight anymore. The meanings of "Alpha" and "Beta" have basically been diluted to mean "strong" and "weak" respectively. In reality, the separation from alpha and beta isn't so black and white. I'm not going into detail but apparently anybody who holds an opinion/lifestyle in opposition to your own is a "beta cuck" (according to the internet).
     
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  2. The_Monk

    The_Monk Guest

    Fappers may fap in peace /\
     
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  3. RecoveringFapaholic

    RecoveringFapaholic Fapstronaut

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    Last night I was scrolling through the comments of a nofap video and one person was saying that he tried to do nofap and just gave up. He said that it was too hard and he'd rather just live with the addiction. It made me sad that he'd rather be addicted than go through the discomfort of recovery/reboot.
     
  4. Porn Free Wanderer

    Porn Free Wanderer Fapstronaut

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    Is there anything more "cuck" than fapping to porn? I mean, come on. Every time you watch porn, you're watching SOME OTHER DUDE banging the object of your desire. What could be more cuckold than that?
     
  5. kingpietro

    kingpietro Fapstronaut

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    people who say NoFap is for losers are usally guys who can't stop the adiction and don't want to try because its to hard.
     
  6. Calling others in names because they do nofap just shows the insecurities of those people. They see a guy doing something that he believes in, they see him benefiting from it, exercising self control and will power. They hear all those stories and see people becoming more confident, attracting women, building great body in gym, etc. They see that tapped in greatness and actualized potential in people. And that makes them feel weak in comparison. You success is like a spotlight shining on their demons; their weaknesses, their dreams that they are too weak to pursue. So what do they do? Instead of getting inspired and motivated to take action they call you names trying to bring you down to level below them, at least in their imagination. So they could feel better about themselves, about their failures. I'm not mad about that, I just feel sad for people like that.
     
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