why is the sex bored to me ?

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by Hurted, Jan 21, 2018.

  1. Immature

    Immature Fapstronaut NoFap Defender

    @Hurted has set a counter for no PMO. Going to a strip club will make him want to PMO.

    @Hurted has made it to 4 days on his counter. Your advice has a strong probability of turning that back to zero.

    I see you have 36 days. Would you go to a strip club now?

    Keep in mind that @Hurted is 18 years old. His hormones are raging. I know that at 18, a trip to the strip club would have had me PMOing like crazy.
     
    Last edited: Feb 6, 2018
  2. GG2002

    GG2002 Fapstronaut

    Restore it? He’s a Virgin?
     
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  3. GG2002

    GG2002 Fapstronaut

    NoFap is not no sex. But part of the journey is being able to see partners in this case women as more than sexual objects but as humans that the addict can build intimacy with. Going to a strip club is reinforcing the same pathway that pmo does, women are sex objects for your pleasure. It will not help him and it will not further his goal. Now having sex in a relationship or with a woman he cares for is totally different.
     
  4. phwrancesco

    phwrancesco Fapstronaut

    when you will be 50 or 60 days on the challenge, i'm talking about 60 days of NO PM at all, you'll desire women like water in the desert.
     
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  5. Single Palm Change

    Single Palm Change Fapstronaut

    No not at all. But strip clubs have nothing to do with healthy sex. Like @GG2002 said, strip clubs are places of depravity and objectification of women and they are stimulating in the same way as porn is.
    You won't find real women in strip clubs. They are actors at best. At worst they are sex slaves from eastern europe kidnapped as children and forced to be exploited sexually. The truth is probably somewhere in between. Anyone who thinks that there are real women in strip clubs are either completely in denial and trying to justify their own rotten beliefs, or they have never met a girl outside of strip clubs.
    I agree, but he won't find any real girls in strip clubs.
     
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  6. Themadfapper

    Themadfapper Fapstronaut

    Lucky you! You will have tons more time than other people who waste so much of their lives in the empty pursuit of sex. Spending that time jacking off is not good either, though, lol.

    Stop masturbating it's a terrible habit and it's not healthy despite what society is telling people. If you continue to have no interest in sex then good for you, but most likely you will end up being attracted to some women again.