Who would you rather date?

So I've had long-term relationships and in none of them was porn accepted. My first partner and I both watched porn on a regular basis and caused so many issues. Jealousy, hypocrisy, and in the end I believe loathing. It ended after 3 years, mainly because of porn. My 2nd partner didn't like it within a relationship and put it on the same level of cheating (which I will elaborate on). My 3rd partner said they would have preferred it not be consumed at all either.

So based off of my experience, a partner that is understanding and supportive of recovery would be my type of partner. If I were to get with someone who thought it was OK, I would have no reason to stop watching porn. I want to respect my future wife by honoring her and not lusting over other women and pleasuring myself to them. In my opinion, porn within a monogamous relationship is almost the same thing as cheating, especially depending on the type you are consuming (cams and talking with women online with sexual intent would 100% be cheating).

 

I would NOT want to date someone who thinks porn is okay.