Where to meet women besides Dating-Apps

Hello fellow brothers of the good fight,

lately I am wondering how I will find potential women to meet and maybe someday have a serious relationship with.

At work in my office there are some girls in my age, but all of them are taken.

In my karate class there are no girls my age.

And thats like all I am doing right now.

Besides that I don’t do many other things, I am also busy enough with work, karate and training at home.

On top of that I really don’t like clubbing so I don’t know if going to a club would be that great to meet potential partners for me?

I don’t want a relationship right now but I plan starting dating again next year after I have worked on myself more (therapy and on my own), so I wonder where and how I could find some girls to meet?

On the one hand I assume that somehow I have to get out of my comfort zone and get out into the world but on the other hand I assume that trying new things (like dancing classes, cooking , etc) merely for the purpose of meeting women is a bad idea?
What do you think?

I will also start using dating apps again when the time has come next year but I think that there are better ways to meet girls for serious dating?

Thank you all for your thoughts and advice!

Have a greay weekend!

 

Hey, thank you. I know, but it‘s not that easy for me to cold approach women. But I guess I have to try some time.

 

Hey buddy,
thanks for your advice!
I will have to check if the app id available in Germany, too.

 

Hello fellow brother, yeah I also thought of attending a dancing class. But if I am not enjoying dancing isn‘t it a bit subiptimal to get to know women there? I mesn just starting something for the reason od meeting girls seems a bit fake or am I wrong there?

 

Hello brother, thanks for your advice. Yes I will check that option.

 

Update for all:

Yesterday I started doing online dating again (Tinder and Bumble). Bit somehow the superficiality and the rocuw on looks is making me a bit sick. I mean I don‘t look that bad but somehow the dating apps make the women look like objects to me.

 

Problem is that I don‘t have female friends.
Maybe one day, when I am brave enough, I will try dancing lessons

 

I am not sure about that man, I don‘t think that my brain is still pure. Bit it just seems a bit odd and too superficial.

I delted my accounts on tinder and bumble right now, I think I will focus on myself and my healing and will try to go out and live my live braveley, open and try new things.

I am sure one day I will meet my significant other then

thank you all for your answers!