When you've tried to quit so many times, it loses meaning more and more

Been in that spot and worse. It overwhelms you and makes you feel helpless and directionless. You have to keep pushing and fight past it. Relaspe is honestly, part of the process. Keep going and going. You either fight or you don't fight. Only two ways about it.

 

If I had a nickel for every time I said to myself, "Man, I really gotta stop this." I'd be rich.

So I feel your despair brother.

 

Iv been there 1000 times. We all have.

I try to think if I had to discuss what I look at with my daughter one day.

 

That's until you got one good streak and it will probably last forever. Never give up. Ask God for redemption.

 

I been there as well bro do what you need to install porn blocker if necessary you can do it

 

Keep the faith, keep trying. May Jesus bless you and guide your walk, and the rest of us.

 

I listen to the song "even if" be mercy me sometimes. Helps get me through

 

Matt, you give a great idea to help prevent relapses: think of the embarrassment if you get caught. What if my wife really found out? OMG.....horrible.

 

I forget where I saw it, but it was from a fellow Fapstronaut who has posted on these forums many times. His signature says something along the lines of: If you feel like you're about to relapse, call your mother. Nothing kills an urge like talking to your mom.

I've actually done this, and it has helped immensely - URGE. GONE.

 

Buddy, even I have gone through similar situation, but I have decided to help myself now. You, also discuss with forum members here. It's a very positive forum. Let's help each other.
Remember- why do we fall? Only to rise again. Set a target of 30 days at first... Then next 30 and then go on like that.
Let's take it day by day.
Also, gym/meditation etc help.
Contact if u need any help wrt meditation.

 

Trigger!!!!! Inappropriate language


Yes I have a wife; no daughter Yet but these are my thoughts I got married in may can I not fuck her like I want to cause of P?

A little abrupt but something we consider. Let's be honest.


Won't dig deeper. Maybe one question is enough.

 

I wish we could all tell our wives but let's be honest.
Let's pray for forgiveness and heal.

Good luck to all.

 

Many of us ueed one day targets

 

Count the days and work towards a new hobby. But don't be too hard on yourself. I struggled with cumpilation porn every fucking day for decades before I could get a month free. Now its been almost 120 days. You can do it. I can do it. WE CAN DO IT, KEEP TRYING.

 

You have to learn from the relapse and carry on. What other option is there? At least you know, deep within, that you are making an effort to deal with P&M. A right motive will gain its right reward.

 

Something that has really helped me is to only check my phone in the morning and just before I go to bed. Therefore, I do not get addicted to surfing through images mindlessly throughout the day. I think if you expose yourself to social media a lot it can really tempt you to PMO. So many girls on social media now post revealing or suggestive photos