I'm a 17 yr old with full blown porn induced ed that is improving very slowly. After 70 days something I think I'm out of the flat line and I have decided to do this nofap thing for the rest of my life because I've spent last 3 yrs pmo-ing a lot for a lifetime. Not only that but in the place I come from, our culture is very very conservative and most of the men sleep with only one woman I.e their wife in their life and are celibate till marriage. (India) Now after about 10 years I'm going to get married and hopefully will I be completely cured by porn induced ed with all those problems of maintaining an erection etc and be ready for penetrative sex?? This is probably a stupid question and most of you may feel surprised about my culture but look at what greed and lust has done to me. So I think this celibacy thing is probably there for a reason in a culture so old.Just my opinion. Will I have achieved normalcy by then
I'm more surprised (or rather terrified) by our European pseudo-culture than your Indian überconservative one. I don't see how you would have ED after 10 years. But even if by some miracle you do, take it easy - life isn't all about sex. You'll learn to notice it more when you get older. It's your clean conscience that matters, and if you truly abide by your principle of masturbatory abstinence, you will have one.
I hope I don't and life definitely isn't all about sex but I want to have a family and kids of my own when I grow up and I realize the seriousness of ed now a lot. I always thought ed wud go in a few days. Never had I been so wrong. All I want for now is to be able to perform penetrative sex without any trouble after my marriage. Long way to go. Lol No language flaws
Don't care about your language we can understand you.Not everbody in here speaks flawless English.I am not muslim but i live in a muslim populated country.So sex-marriage culture is relavant with your Indıan culture.I want to cure my PE and ED with NoFap but even i had a girlfriend i would probably not test my sexual situation after NoFap with her.Because sex is taboo in our country.
Yes, you will. It's supposed to be hard and you have reached the starting-position of a new life, here. Appreciate it.
Suyash I probably never told you this but I masturbated by rubbing the back of my dick with my half pants on err. I don't think I caused any damage cause I was never rough or used any death grip. Anyway I hope I get cured till I turn 18 next April. That is the only thing I can gift myself
Damn...10 years....that's hard. I couldn't do it. Anyway you should be fine by then if you stay off the porn.
Its been 70 to 80 days since I quit porn for good. But in that 70 to 80 days, I had one relapse at day 18 and one relapse at day 65 something to fapping. I'm trying to quit fapping for good because I was in a dark place for the last 3yrs and I am solely responsible for putting myself in there. I really wish my parents would have caught me watching porno in the beginning. Its not their fault.
Well, I masturbated while lying in bed too. The only difference it creates is that the advice "donot touch yourself" doesnot work
Dude I clearly masturbated in a different way. I've had enough. I'm asking you one last time with complete desperation. If I abstain from pmo long enough forgetting about all this stuff, will I reach normalcy? :'|
Obviously, yes. We are going to be normal. Maximum time it could take is an year. Or maybe 15 months as in Gabe's case...
Gabe had someone to rewire with. We have 10 years. I guess we ll be completely fine in an year or max 2years and be ready for relationships and penetrative sex.
I think we have a great opportunity over others. We have already quit pmo and the rest of our generation still indulges in it. These years shape our lives and we finally got our heads out of sex the hard way and can finally focus on building a life. I just want to be normal as soon as possible though