What was your goal/life after reboot?

I know this is directed towards addicts, but for my husband he doesn't M anymore because M and P go together and one reinforces the other. So for him, he only orgasms with me (whether sex or by hand or going down etc.) That way he is getting his brain to rewire to bonding with a human rather than a hand or screen. I know other addicts do continue M on occasion, but it's really about knowing yourself and knowing whether M for you increases your chances of getting urges, or even just using M too much even without porn. For my husband he basically told me that M was nothing compared to what we have in the bedroom and he has no desire to M unless it's me getting him off. So again, reflect, know your own triggers, talk with your wife, and decide together what is best for you and your relationship.

 

Yet to decide. I have M'd a couple of times since I got the 90 days, when sex was unavailable for a week (two separate occasions). Not sure what my strategy will be in the longer term. Id rather be in a position where I don't masturbate except in situations of long term forced abstinence from sex.