What to do when you get girls number?

Dont over think it. Just be urself. I've found honesty with a hint of conviction rather than vulnerability is effective for women.

Basically if ur nervous about it then start with that. Tell her you really enjoyed her company and you been thinking about the best way to call /text her. And then if u dont know wear u wanna take her ... even tho apparently u have similar hobbies (hint) then keep it simple. Take her to dinner and a movie. Or somewhere cliche like that. U dress the way u would dress for that kind of place and yes u pick up the tab. If she offers to pay half then u can either let her or tell her she can get it on ur second day .

But ya u already danced with her, connected and got her number. This part is easy. Just show her a nice time and don't be a dick. If its meant to be from there then sparks will happen , if not count ur blessings u didnt find out 5 dates and $500 dollars later lol. gl

 

You’ve done well mate. Try not over think it.

Personally I’d find a good restaurant and see if she wants to go for food. Keep it chilled.

 

Regardless of if it's a friendly meeting or a date, it is a chance to get to know her better! She said yes! That's awesome!
As long as you're not sending 5+ messages at a time, you're probably not coming off as needy or desperate. A lot of people tend to overthink this, and they trip themselves up as a result.
If you must think, think of this as practice. Either practice talking to her, or, if the date totally fizzles and dies, practice talking to women. You cannot lose practice, and you cannot fail at practice. So...practice writing to her! Practice having coffee with her and carrying a conversation. Practice finding out what kinds of things she likes. Practice, practice, practice!

For meeting up, be specific about when/where. My suggestion is coffee -- even if neither of you drink it, there's some kind of hot beverage for you. Coffee can be over in 20 minutes (and it's good to allow her the opportunity to leave at that time - a pleasant "If you need to go, then go. I am really enjoying our conversation and I do not want to keep you from things you need to do!"). Or coffee can be three hours! (Which is closer to my average).

Coffee also doesn't break the bank, and plan to pay for it yourself...at least to begin with (maybe something to discuss on your second date?). A fun move: if she starts reaching for her wallet, ask the barista (and play it up a bit as a joke), "Can you do me a favour? Can you not accept any money from this woman so I can buy her coffee?" And then smile or joke about it with her.

Conversation on a coffee date can be light or heavy, but both can be beneficial. DO ask opinion questions. DO ask open questions that start with the word "what" (eg. What do you like about your work? What is your family like? What are your favourite things to do?). DO NOT ask "yes" or "no" questions - they kill conversation. DO ask about hopes, dreams, and aspirations (What would you like to do with that degree? What would you do if someone gave you $1 million, tax free?). DO be yourself, you don't need to play games. DO enjoy yourself - dating is supposed to be fun, so have fun with it!

 

Hey good job! Be yourself Always with all including nice girls . BE YOURSELF. Do not think too much what is right what is wrong. Be yourself and make experience. Do want you want without asking to all friends and forum.
In general girls prefer a direct man a sure one that do non ask but he do. A man that is sure, he can make mistakes but is sure.
The main mistake is not do. You fail 100% when you not try. The rejections are just feedbacks.

If you have clean mind , not too much: drugs , alchool, porn , etc... . You are a normal man. So finally what you feel inside yourself will be normal in all relations. Even with a nice girl.

Smal suggestions or mind frames:
1) She is not the one.
2) I can have more
3) I am testing you
4) I am sure
5) I touch you
6) I challenging you
7) I am this, you like it? good
8) I am this, you do not like it? good. is not my problem
9) I do not have needs. I give to myself everything
10) I do not need you
11) May be you will shown me that i will want you
12) i already decide that i want you. And I am doing evrything I think is best way to have you.

Good luck.

 

Hey congratulations man. First I would give her a surprise call and just ask how's shes doing in general. Just ask simple things, and remind her of how you guys met that night. If you are a bit nervous like I am most of the time just give her a text and say hi. Just remember she is probably more nervous then you so it will be a relief from her that you called and still care.

 

First off congrats on asking for the number and getting it that's a big step forward. Next keep whatever you write her SHORT because talking a lot and writing a lot before a date kills the tension plus the fact your using up conversation topics before you meet face to face which I learned in dating was a bad idea talk face to face more than you do over the phone or text. Here is an example of what to write here
example A
You- Hi ( whatever her name is insert here) I will see you Thursday at 7 at the( whatever place) talk to you then
Where ever you go keep it somewhat cheap you don't know her she don't know you its realy like an interview for a second date cafes public places are good, dinner and movie dates are NOT GOOD you want to get to know her and see how she fits into your life. DONT BE TO SERIOUS . Dress casual don't have a suit and tie on, were what you normally where when your going to town . The first date pay the bill but don't make it a huge meal maybe go to a café or some public area have pop or chips and cheese keep it light. Dates can pull at your emotions but remember weather it works out or not look for women that like you just as you are - that was huge lesson I wished i would have learned when i was younger if you have to try to make it work its a red flag to move on.
GOOD LUCK AND HAVE FUN

 

Why, what happened?

 

I've done a lot of dating, and this advice is pretty solid. I'll re-emphasize the importance of being specific.
- Don't say "we should hang out *sometime*...." and leave it hanging ambiguously while you wonder what to do.
- Just pay the bill before she has a chance, to skip the whole back-n-forth about paying. If you balk at this idea, then the place is too expensive to be worth it.

 

Your Welcome,

 

I once told a girl something similar, but she took it hard. But, maturity won the day, and we're still on good terms even today.

I'm glad you have the live-and-let-live mentality going for you, bro. Never lose that.

 

Well, with things like this it's smart to write fast, as the positive memory is still vivid which highly increases the chances of an actual meet-up.

Try to make it light and fun, it's important to not let her have a hard time writing back. Make fun of yourself, don't take the situation or yourself too serious. you can even tease her a little.

You probably will have to write first. If you are not 9+/10 or her soulmate personality wise I doubt she will have the enthusiasm to write you first.

Conversations should be crisp and short. Chances are, the longer they go, the more boring and a hassle they become, which means that you become boring and a hassle.
Texting like this should always be an instrument for a meet-up. Never text a girl you want to hook up with because you are bored etc...

Honestly I think it's okay to fuck around and mess up texting.
I have done really funny stuff with girls I met.
Things like "Hey whose number is this, I just woke up and had it in my phone" She was like wtf you don't remember me and then me nah just kidding.
with another girl: "hey, i still can't get over how gracefully you were stepping on my feet when were dancing last night".

Just don't try to force being funny. If you a naturally cool and funny person, just be yourself.

 

I'll talk about my opinion of your case, as I was taught by seduction coaches. be yourself - this is the biggest mistake if you want to become an ALPHA. if you get to the point of the two of you talking about old relationship you will become the famous gay friend. I do not care about people here because I'm sure most of them are good and good people, but the female mind does not work like that, at least not today. in case of a decision situation always take the reins, be the leader. being yourself is often the main reason for separations today, if you really want to live your entire life with a woman, you have to know at least the basics of the female mind, otherwise living a marriage today will be a waste of time, because a separation will probably happen in the future, this is the world today and for women it is more advantageous to be single than married.

 

Sorry to hear that man, what happened if you don't mind me asking? I've been rejected before as well so don't feel so bad, there will always be a girl that's more interested in you. Unfortunately woman these day's have high standards for who they want.