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What to do now? Please some advices. :)

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Pre, Dec 15, 2017.

  1. Pre

    Pre Fapstronaut

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    After about 240 days I relapsed. What do you propose for my next steps?
     
  2. Just do what you did last streak, 240 days is crazy good:) If you can do that, you can do anything! Aim for higher!
     
  3. HI @pre.Last year i relapsed after132 days .It was very hard times...but made me more careful this time...it took me more than 4 months to start succesful streak...i had few small streaks ,but for less than a month ..My advise is choose a important date which is after few weeks ,and your subcountius will work for your success...when u start your streak ,the chance its better not to relapse soon when u know bthe date in advance....dont rush things
     
  4. Pre

    Pre Fapstronaut

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    Thanks! :)
     
  5. Pre

    Pre Fapstronaut

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    In first, before watching P, I began to justify myself...I said to myself, ''you can give yourself a break after 240 days you deserve to relax etc.'' and after I was feeling awful and remorse. And now I am fearing that my ED is going to return.
     
  6. Purity of Speech

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    i envy you for your great run of 240 days! there is a big & ongoing discussion in the anonymous [whatever] scene whether it's good or bad to penalize slips very harshly. some feel it's necessary, others fear that it may encourage binging and doesn't do justice to a previous quality product.
    let's just say: nothing in the world can take away the 240 and what it indicates. nothing. nor can the lapse be taken away.
    what this assessment comes down to is that the best way to view a situtation like this is a test for how good you are at reestablishing yourself after an incongruency. imagine that there was another measure in the signature to indicate how good someone was at recovery, indicating speed, clarity & perspective. there would have to be someone who is best in the world at this. i would really like to talk to that person, for in reality this is something that is coming up all the time in small ways and failing in this may even be the greatest cause for suffering of all.
     

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