So hear me out. I've been without porn for a month now, at worse i see a picture, but I never really was a true addict I could get erect just holding my girls hand. But I have a question. Why do i get erect each time I say in my head how I would wanna tear my girlfriends cloths off, and you know something highly sexual like calling her words inside my head. I start to get an erection. At first I though this is some auto-sexual thing but then I realize that I can't think in image alone, I seriously need to say words inside my head in order to think. Last time I saw an asian tied up and in my head I say what a nice looking whore, and boom erection but I'm sure if I didn't say it, I wouldn't get an erection I think. Why is audio so important in my life? I dig around and people that are left-side brain dominated seem to be this way. I also can get auto erect if a girl is teasing and talking dirty as I have a serious sweet spot for dirty talking, in a sexual context even degrading her but as long as she is fine with it. This is not porn induced. I'm pretty sure of that. But Is this normal tho? Can thoughts be created by words or strengthen? Also this only works with girls and me, no other dudes, with dudes in same voice context auto erection never happens in me.
I get aroused whenever I imagine of any type of move that makes me get closer to having sex. Probably normal.
Yes, words are symbols for ideas just like images. It’s not weird at all. But if you want to quit P in a real, complete sense, you’ll need to stop the sexual talk, both audible and in your head
