What should I know before hiring a LEGAL prostitute?

That you would be making a mistake.

I live on planet Earth. On my planet there's a forum called NoFap full of men struggling to give up porn, prostitutes, camgirls, etc. so that they can overcome relationship difficulties or sexual difficulties. They support each other through a 'reboot' and develop far healthier relationships with women as partners, not as objectified fantasies. It looks like there's a forum called NoFap on your planet too. What's it for?

 

I‘ve been with tons of escorts ... spent thousands with, on and under them, alone, gang banging, drugging, you name it. Of 5% maybe I keep a good memory. The rest was shallow and a cheat. Over too soon, didn‘t stick to what we agreed on, made false promises ... were plain boring, absent.
You can do it. I know of junkies who can absolutely control their consumption. Some died, too. But hey, you might be the lucky one, the one who‘s fine with giving money for getting his dong sucked, she making sure it won‘t last long, charging for extra services, bang her in whatever position, with lots of fake ah and oh ... If your lucky she‘s even having a little fun. Most likely not. Depends on your character, not your dong.
You might feel a hero for a short time after cause yeah you finally could fuck, like the hunters in Africa are proud to shoot „wild animals“ that were exposed especially for that reason in a small designated wild free open safari fairground.
And like they collect the antlers of the dead lifes you can start collecting wigs and fake fingernails of your fucked hookers. - You wanna know more? Feel free to ask.

 

Take my advice if you want.

Would you be more proud of yourself if you fack prostitute?-I will not be more proud or feel better.
In first looks this look like good idea,but believe me it is not,i was having same idea long ago.
If you do that not only you will give your money to prostitute(i would rather give my money to weed,even if i don't smoke weed anymore) you will definetly feel worse.There is chance to be addicted to prostitute/sex whatever.
I will feel even more shame with knowing that i facked prostitute and paid for that.

Your life you decision.

 

What do you want to hear then? You really need someone to tell you it‘s ok, you are permitted to have paid sex??? Buy some rubbers stop by an ATM and off you go! If that‘s what you call life, please feel free, go ahead.
Fucking is one thing, paying for it another. But coming here where most struggle with addiction issues cause of the life they may have had, and looking for approval to bang some hooker? You really need us to tell you go do it? What do you want to hear?

 

Before I get into the paid sex stuff, I'll just say your timing of this possible adventure may be an issue. *caugh* corona *caugh*.

I've been with prostitutes and overall it was a negative time of my life. I would be lying to say I regretted all aspects of it, but the bad outweighed the good, and the good was nothing compared to natural relationships with women. Things change, and I can now swear that I would rather go on a date with a woman and get to know her, than pay her money and have sex with her, all the while knowing she can't wait to get away from me.

I can go into more detail regarding prostitutes if you like, as I'm happy to help you make a decision armed with enough info.


But if I can take a step back away from prostitutes for a second, it sounds to me like you have a real drive for intimacy - and there's nothing wrong with that!

However, you might be looking in the wrong places and thinking of this situation as something that needs to be solved "right now dammit!" This may be a sign of wanting instant validation through sex, rather than taking the time to meet people and slowly build up a connection i.e. a relationship.

Honestly man my first time was with a paid worker and it was soooo bad. Hated it, and could tell she didn't enjoy it at all. I'd tell my younger self to just keep talking to girls in the real world. Avoid the internet dating, avoid the sex industry period. Again, any questions at all I'm happy to help.

 

LOL, prepared? Take a shower, get some rubbers and a credit card, some cash maybe ... That is all you need. Oh ... and wear some fresh clean undies ...

 

You do you man. I think you already know all the answers.

What should you know before hiring a hooker?

Don't go for a trapped hooker, you know the sex trafficked ones, the kind who sell their bodies because they have no choice. It's better to go after one who wants easy money (they do exist) and chose this path instead of working like other women for their lifestyle needs.

 

Hm ... reading your inner state ... I‘d say ... go for a massage. Better try Tantra. That is touch, sensuality, sexual healing, relaxation, contact, intimacy ...

 

Resentment, frustration, underfucked, lonely, angry ... yearning, craving a „real life“ ... what else? Pissed off, overwhelmed, sexless, longing for human intimate touch ...
disappointed, let down, betrayed and cheated, mocked and snubbed.
Hungry, no starving. Needy. Greedy.
And with this radiating you want to attract a female creature to land on your dong?

 

It's okay to be resentful man, means we have things we still need to work out, that's all.

When you have all these things that piss you off, and rightly so, it does however give off a negative energy. Trust me, I did this for years.

You think "why aren't women into me?", when they read your energy as "screw this, it's not working", or even worse "all women are bitches, I'm only spending time on porn now". In a sense, it wouldn't matter what you said or where you were looking for women. Like a piece of heavy, strong music, you may give the women an emotion that tells them to back off. But you would know as a musician, that you can change the song with the same instrument and player, and suddenly everyone smiles!

I had a lot of resentment as well and it took me years to get to a point where I'm almost ready to date (almost because of stupid covid 19). I'm not going to bullshit you, this requires patience and hard work.

But it's only worth your life happiness, and the years will go by regardless, so might as well give it a shot yeah?

I recommend this book to everyone. I say with no exaggeration that it changed my world view of women, dating, and what it means to be a responsible man in modern society.

Models is the name, Mark Manson is the author. https://markmanson.net/books/models

Your future girlfriend or wife is waiting out there man, that's what you really need to get prepared for.

 

And? What about your original quest now?

 

It is really really difficult for every man to get sex. You'll waste hours and money and your emotions will race high and low like a roller coaster. It's worth all of it and more when it does work out, but there's no guarantee that'll be any time soon. So it's no wonder that the most successful men are those that learn to enjoy the ride, as much as you can, shrug off the rejection and get what you can from the bad dates and dead ends - an amusing anecdote or two here, a life lesson there.

or you can hire a prostitute. If it'll get it out of your system, and make you feel a man again, then sure go for it. Be careful though. What if it is really incredible? Won't you want to go back for more and more? How long before you are broke? How long before you are not bothering dating 'real' women in order that you can afford you monthly/biweekly session with a prostitute? Is that the kind of life you want to be leading?