thanks man that really encouraging and a good metaphor i just really like this girl but im afraid to be in a relationship with her because im pretty sure she will want sex and im pretty sure im in no condition to perform hopefully 90 days pmo free will do the trick but im seriously like this girl and im worried if i wait too long shell lose interest im not sure which would be worse
It's OK to be afraid. We all are afraid bud that's why we're here. Google Brene Brown TedX. She is a shame and vulnerability researcher. She has done some good work on the subject of vulnerability and how it drives our fears. I hope everything works out with this girl! Take it one day at a time bud!
What i developed due to porn and no real experiences: Horrible self-esteem Horrible body image expectations (for myself as well as all woman/girls) Having zero confidence in my own ablities(in literally anything) Feeling of absolute inadequacy Not taking any responsibility for my Life Wrong impressions of intimacy Wrong impressions of Masculinity and positive assertiveness Social Anxiety Social Awkwardness These are only the ones i am aware of right now. As if those weren't enough already :S Not that it is relevant but those reasons are literally ALL reverseable with the right environment, right people around us and dedication.
