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What has helped me conquer loneliness and nofap simutaniously

Discussion in 'Loneliness' started by Hourglass51, Nov 15, 2016.

  1. Hourglass51

    Hourglass51 Fapstronaut

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    If you're reading this thread for a million and one magic tactics I don't have it. The only thing that's worked for me is approaching women particularly during the day, getting their number and meeting up later. Was I good at this at first, no. Am I now? Yes there's a light at the end of the tunnel no matter how scary it seems at first or no matter how much you suck and stumble upon your words. This simultaneously makes me not masturbate because of the possibility of a date later and also makes me feel less lonely as I'm taking action against a life of perpetual loneliness even if a few girls don't text me back etc.

    There's your magic pill, approach and do something about your situation. Start small, hell I even began asking old ladies for the time just to get warmed up, you can't get much lower than that haha. Hope this helps someone reading this. Dive in and improve your skills around women even if you're a virgin and cannot yet see the light at the end of the tunnel. It will come I assure you.

    - Hourglass51
     
  2. Dziki007

    Dziki007 Fapstronaut

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    Yes your right itd right path, i had friends who are doing it they calling themself "PUA" :D but i never coudnt push myself, now after 2 years they made enormous progress while im still sitting infront of coputer waiting for "love". And while on NOFAPP i truly want just talk to women, nothing more.
     
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  3. Hourglass51

    Hourglass51 Fapstronaut

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    Yeah be careful of the whole PUA thing. Use it to learn how to get better skills with women not just sleep with as many women as you can to feel better about yourself! The PUA info does have a lot of good self development and confidence tools aswell, remember not to use it to cover up any deeper problems in your life
     
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  4. Dziki007

    Dziki007 Fapstronaut

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    Yes, people who are intrested in pick up also got much knowledge about self improvement, they recommend good books etc. but also they use "tricks" to pick up women which im not big fan of it. There is no need to change in someone else or impress women its not the point, just be yourself. But i belive in becoming better in social skills to talking to more women which sadly im not doing right now and feel so bad about it, i am on 15 days and fuuck i need go out.

    How is your progress in no fapp how many days are you in and how its affect you talking to women?
     
  5. Hourglass51

    Hourglass51 Fapstronaut

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    I like RSD's stuff but not all of it. When I fap I don't approach and get lazy, I don't feel motivated to cure my loneliness or singleness, when I get past 5-7 days I approach more because my body's telling me to go meet a woman to mate with! I also loose my urges for odd fetish porn because my brain is more focused on mating instead of looking at wierd P. I found this place from the nofap on Reddit
     
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  6. Dziki007

    Dziki007 Fapstronaut

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    There if few people from RSD worth listening. I have the same when i masturbate, and while im doing it im also doing useless time consumig stuff like vidego games and no drive to meet women. And then after abstinence for 15 days from all shiit there is some kind of emptiness and motivation for change. Welcome to NO FAPP its great forum and you get a lot of support here. Stay strong with your journey and dont let urges impower you.
     
  7. SyrusDrake

    SyrusDrake Fapstronaut

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    Not the first time I've heard that advice...
    Mind if I ask you if you're from the US?
     

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