What gives you the motivation?

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by stewie19, Mar 6, 2017.

  1. stewie19

    stewie19 Fapstronaut

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    without motivation rebooting is impossible, so what keeps you going?
    for me its social anxiety and f**ed up fetishes.
     
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  2. You cannot fully rely on motivation, because motivation isn't to stay. You need to have reasons to stop with PMO reasons, by that i mean really strong reasons to.
    For me, for example i simply just remember the fact i cannot do this for the rest of my life, and think of what i can accomplish. I am mostly scared of time crushing me, and while i have so high ambitions i am afraid that one day it will be too late for me to realize how could i achieve my great potential. Once you realize what you really need to quit for, motivation won't help you. Having motivation is great, don't get me wrong but don't rely solely on motivation as motivation goes away with your mood.
     
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    jest Fapstronaut

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    Motivation is often temporary, you can be motivated today and relapse tomorrow. Some say discipline helps, if you set your mind to achieve your goals you won't really need to be motivated, you know what the problem is and you must find a way to reach success no matter what. You really have to be strong and force your brain to do what you want it to, you are the one in control not your addiction(s).
     
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