What do you think about ''Feet Fetish''. Normal or Abnormal thing ?

Liking women's feet is perfectly normal. And, I believe, many women are perfectly content to have their feet admired / worshiped by their man.

 

I like girls feet, they are very nice to see and nice to feel sorry if I'm weird.

 

In Malaysian native culture if I not mistaken the women with the biggest feet is consider the most beautiful regardless of their looks. No, it does not effect or arouse me.

 

Bro I honestly don't know, pedicure stuff on the fingers I understand it looks pretty, but the feet will I don't know.

 

I think it's pretty normal. When you're attracted to a woman, every part of her body catches your attention. I'm not huge into feet, but I do probably notice hands/nails more than the average guy.

 

Hi,
After all, it's a fetish, and fetishes are not "normal".
In my opinion, the normal thing is that a man is attracted to a woman, because of WHO she is.
The love of who she IS, should lead to sexual attraction. Of course the body parts are part of it.
But if your love of a woman is not going deeper then feeling attracted by her feet, you should think twice.

Fetishes are selfish, love is looking to the other, doing what the other need, seeing the other, giving to the other.

 

This post may be triggering.

There's this girl I work with, during the summer months she loves to wear flip flops to the office and paints her toenails - boy oh boy, those are difficult times for me.

Sometimes when she's wearing flats with no socks, she crosses her legs behind her desk and dangles the shoe off her toes exposing her heel. My eyes are always drawn there when I stand behind her giving her computer advice.

Why I have no fucking idea.

 

I don't think there is anything wrong with it and I believe it's considered to be a common desire.

 

This is wishful thinking I'm afraid.

Imho attraction between men and women is nearly always dictated by instincts driven towards the impact on child rearing. For example, if we accept that beauty represents the average, then opposites often attract for the possible benefit it offers in moving back towards the average in the couple's children. Similarly the traits that are considered desirable in women and men are different and can pretty much all be reasonably explained as having a direct connection with possible future children.

You cannot remove children as a primary factor in human coupling. After all, humans have a mating instinct for a reason...

 

I would not say you are wrong. But my humble opinion about fetishes is that it is ...... a fetish.

Let's have a look at the meaning of the word fetish, this comes from wikipedia:
"a form of sexual desire in which gratification is linked to an abnormal degree to a particular object, item of clothing, part of the body, etc."
or
"an inanimate object worshipped for its supposed magical powers or because it is considered to be inhabited by a spirit."

In fact in every fetish there is a very strong pull to a part or object that gives the fetishist such a thrill (s)he would do anything to get these feelings. Therefor there is a worshipping part in it. And worshipping means there is some idolatry in it. And every idolatry leads to a unhealthy bond to a person or object (which is - in fact - bond to a spirit).

I do not deny that in a normal relationship there is no space for body attraction, of course that is a normal part of the game. But any healthy relationship is going much further than only the body. A healthy relationship is a deep connection on an emotional, social, spiritual and intellectual base. And as a result of this, also the bodies will get connected to each other.

Everyone has to conclude for him/herself if the longing (s)he experience is healthy or not, and if that longing can have a place in a relationship. To me, my crossdress fetish was a total blocker in my former relationship. I knew I had to give it up if I want to be able to connect to a woman in a healthy way.

 

I think it's normal but never even found out about it until porn so I'm not sure.

 

It is rather a shame we can't choose our fetishes. A foot fetish is probably the mildest of all - mild because it has little danger attached (except smelly feet, though for some that's an added bonus) and also it is relatively easy to find a girl who would happily have her feet worshiped.

Cross-dressing, I suppose, is more a medium fetish as it still has little danger attached (except for high heels!) but finding a girl who is accepting of it, and willing to share her clothes and embrace it, is so much more difficult. Sorry to hear that it didn't work out for you with your former partner.

 

For me the fetish was a symptom of a deeper layered problem. I have faced that pain and I actually don't need my fetish any more (although I know it still can give me lots of pleasurable feelings if I should act it out, but that behaviour doesn't confirm who I really am and who I really want to be, any longer). It was sort of a survival strategy for me. If I should have found a nice girl which I could share my fetish with, for sure the relationship would have ended up after a while.
If a girl is wise she should not connect with me but pointing me to face the inner pain.
She would know that if she should connect with me, one day that inner pain will come to the surface.
Normally that's the moment the relationship will get some serious troubles.
And if I should be wise, I don't start a relationship before my root issues are thouroughly processed. And that has taken some time

 

I know everything can be sexualized. That means, literally everything can cause arousal, if it has become in your brain when you was a child. Your brain has to be programmed. If things went wrong, the brain is still doing what it is made for: being programmed.

For example, I remember I once had a wet dream. I was dreaming about sitting in a leather tractor chair, while I was ejaculating. I also remember when I show a software program to my class mates, I 've got a boner
But in that period I had boners all the time in the classroom haha.
Hoping that nobody trapped me about it

Imho there must be a reason that you have this foot fetish issue. Somewhere in your development there is created a link between feet, or shoes, and your sexuality. Sexuality and fear are lying very close to each other.
So, also you can say: somewhere in your development there is created a link between feet and some anxiety.

You don't have to worry about it too much. In every normal relationship loving the partners body is part of the game, so, including the feet.

 

Our sex drive is a basic instinct to reproduce. Normal sexual attraction is focused on things that are the best for reproduction, like for example, the female hourglass figure. Beautiful feet do not play a role in normal, healthy reproduction. Therefore, feet fetish is outside of our inherent sexual behavior. That doesn't necessarily mean you shouldn't do it, but if it's a major focus I don't think it's psychologically healthy.

Fetishization is an artificial glorification of a tangential aspect of sex (sometimes completely removed, as in mechanophilia). The more it's pursued, the more it begins to dominate the person's sexual fantasies. This leads to a kind of reliance on the fetish for arousal. That's a heck of a lot like addiction. You're giving power to a fantasy that is removed from normal sexual behavior and letting it rule over your desires. IMO, that's not a beneficial path.