What do you have to offer ? Picture this, You the fapper and someone who is a anti fapper are in a room together and then the pornstar of your dreams and desire walks into the room looking for sex. Who will she pick ? You the fapper ? What do you have to offer her except a blue brused friction burnt dick coverd on patches of raw skin, beer gut with a belly button that probably has food crumbs in it from last week and a really short temper with erectile dysfunction issues or will she pick the anti fapper who has looked after him self and his hygiene? Im guessing the only thing you would get from her is a bar of soap on the end of a 10 foot pole. seriously if you want hot sexy woman in your lives stop looking and fapping to porn.
The pornstar of my dreams and desires would still be a pornstar. Good to have sex with once or twice, but after that? Would I want a relationship with her? Fuck no! So why even bother? Sure you have some great story to brag about with your friends but apart from that, what else can she give you? I know the point you´re making is that you shoud cultivate yourself to become more attractive. But the goal here is to change our lives for ourselfes and not for the women, who would consider us attractive when we did. This is just a positive side effect.
I'm gonna pull out my meme collection she is mine. Nah but in all seriousness I think the answer is obvious.