Want to end fantasies

keep faith man and never give up. You will be fine. Just remember that short gratification is nothing compared to a long term happy healthy life. Also you are young dude! Talk to some girls and socialize. This will help you overcome. Lastly you are not sick or twisted. Porn can make you feel that way. Porn is the problem not you. All you have to do is pray and find healthy activities every time you get the urge.

 

Yes ur young, and getting flooded w/ testosterone to make ur body & brian change. That might be part. But you do have some control. When u have the thoughts come on NoFap and just wander around. Use ur EMERGENCY BUTTON. Read a book that is NONSEXUAL. You may want to ISO an AP.

 

Random and inappropriate boners; random and inappropriate thoughts about sex and unexpected, weird fantasies.
Yeah, it is all part of being 16. Puberty is fuelled by a powerful hormone (testosterone), so much of this is unavoidable.

However, you do get some say in it. Although these things may appear suddenly in your mind, you do not have to dwell on them or engage with them. To break the pattern of addiction, we need to replace it with a new pattern. In taking on this challenge, we can choose not to have sexual thoughts and fantasies stay in our minds. If they return, push them out again.

But how? I find songs I like work best - songs you know the lyrics to. When something unwanted comes to mind, start singing a song (in your head as it were). Because of the concentration needed, the sexual stuff gets pushed out.