Virgin, so what ?

Find a girl.... Not for sex but for connection

 

You need to ve

You need to believe that you are special

 

I personally want to build a connection with a girl first, settle down with her, marry her and then make love with her, because I refuse to believe that traditional civilised courtship is dead and despise the modern 'pick up and shag' lifestyle. That's the main reason why I'm a virgin. I'm not worried about it because I want to save myself for the right girl, and only when I find a girl who fits my high standards will I consider love and (later) sex.

 

The age old debate of culture, marriage, morality, sex and an illogical cultural norms. But someone who hasn't taken a risk and fallen in love, hasn't lived at all. Who cares if you end up together or not. Give it a shot, and you will see a whole new world. You will know what it's like to be alive!
Relationships have always been complex, even though religion and culture has tried best to simplify it. And to make it worse, sex is such a taboo and a no no in many cultures that we chase what is not worth it. If you must, chase love. Intimacy and sex might or might not follow, but the rush of being in love is way far more greater my friend.

 

Buddy, you are in for a rude shock. But I don't want to talk you out of it. The best teacher is experience itself. We all have lots of things to learn from life. We all have to tread our own path.

 

23 - it says so on my profile

On the contrary, I know what being in love with someone is like (should have made that clear in my previous post), I have met three different girls that I did build a strong bond and fall in love with, but a combination of simply not knowing what to do to show my interest properly, being busy with school/college/university work and being cursed by PMO stopped those deep friendships from being something more.

That's what I intend to do - to live the life I want to live and let experience teach me that which I want to know.

You see, I loathe the filthy sexualised culture that permeates modern society, and I don't want to live the wretched way everyone else does, plain and simple. I want to return the world to a more respectable traditional lifestyle, and I can do that by leading by example. I wish to give my virginity to a girl who will appreciate it and give hers to me in return, as a symbol of our love for one another. I want a girl who's trustworthy and loyal so I will never have to worry about her being misled by some snarky quip-merchant dipshit behind my back, and she and I will be able to build a life and family together. I have met a few girls who are still civilised and come from good backgrounds, so I know it's still possible to find a partner like this, and now I've learned how to show my interest properly I can look for one by meeting as many people as possible and rebuilding my social circle.

I have my plan worked out, and I will not rest until it is fulfilled to the best possible standard.