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Valid reasons to start nofap?

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by 0182shane, Jan 17, 2014.

  1. Jan 17, 2014 #1
    0182shane

    0182shane New Fapstronaut

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    I have been going out with this girl for almost a year im nearly 20 and its the most serious relationship i have been in, iv noticed myself becoming less and less involed in my relationship, i fap off regularly (3-4 sometimes more) times a day , i feel as though im becoming more and more depressed and i know this isnt a quick magic fix but im willing to try anything that might help my relationship and help me to be more positive in general, im moving into a place with my girl in 10 days so i have set my self a goal to not masturbate for these ten days, no sex or any form of orgasm, and after the 10 days i plan to have sex 2-3 times a week but no porn and no fapping and im hoping this might give my love life and life in general some perspective, any tips or ideas would be appreciated, thanks and wish me luck, nearly on day 3 !!
     
    0182shane, Jan 17, 2014
    0182shane, Jan 17, 2014
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  2. Jan 17, 2014 #2
    Mark

    Mark Distinguished Fapstronaut

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    Hi mate! Just a quick greeting to wish you all the best!

    If I could just suggest you visit the thread below as the first thing you might want to start doing is learning how to view your 'problem' in new and fresh ways because as Albert Einstein once said "You will not solve a problem using the same thinking that caused it"!
    http://www.nofap.org/forum/showthread.php?2318-Humour!!

    You'll get lots of different perspectives in the main forums so start focusing on the 'solution', get stuck in, and help and be helped because your contribution/perspective is as valid as anyone's!

    This is a great place to start on the 'serious' stuff:)...http://www.nofap.org/forum/showthread.php?3549-Action!-or-not!!!-Have-you-actually-Prepared-for-it

    It's also worth mentioning that I hear a lot of people refer to the struggle/fight/battle etc, but it REALLY doesn't have to be that way(not unless you want to get in your OWN way?!?!)...:) http://www.nofap.org/forum/showthread.php?2655-The-Way-of-Harmony

    So stay strong, help and be helped, and keep going! http://www.nofap.org/forum/showthread.php?2660-Keep-going :)
     
    Mark, Jan 17, 2014
    Mark, Jan 17, 2014
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