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Urges are your friend, not your enemy.

Discussion in 'Success Stories' started by Wisewannabe, Feb 28, 2020.

  1. Wisewannabe

    Wisewannabe Fapstronaut

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    (Sorry for the horrible English)


    Im not saying its not hard


    BUT


    You urges is not your enemy, it is actually your friend. Its maybe the most beatiful thing about you. I will explain why.


    You can actually create life. This is true and it is possible. You can pro-create. Or you can create


    But there are different kind of life. There is actual life and there is metaphysical life.


    Your urges are a sorce of creative energy. You can use it to create, be spontanious, be creative, intuitve and so on.


    And you can use it to Pro-create.


    Our society is beeing formally institutionalized. That means that you as a individual has less options to use your creativity and your free thinking. You are regulated in all sorts of way, by your family, friends, society, but unconcusly you dont like this, and you have tons of energy stuffed in your body.


    YOU NEED TO LET "THE FORCE" CHANNEL BY YOUR-SELF!


    Thank god you have had porn! I really mean it. Think of all the energy society "forbid" you to take out.


    My tip to everybody is to look deep inside yourself. Find that passios you had to put side for different reason. It could be:


    - Music (PRODUCED BY YOU!)

    - litterature (ACTUAL WRITING)

    - mecanics (BY YOU)

    - Car-styling BY YOU

    - Philosofy BY YOU

    - Arcitecture BY YO

    - Helping others YOUR WAY

    - Sosial service YOUR WAY


    It does not matter, but what matters is that you create something that is a product of YOU!!! I cant stress this enoufht. It has to be a product of YOU!!


    IT HAS TO BE YOUR META-PHYSICAL BABY!!!


    I like to read philosofy.. But to read is not to use my creativity, but to PHILOSOFICE or THINK is to use it. I create something. I create an IDE. I use my urges, my force and my energy to create.


    Nofap has been my blessing. It has put me in the right direction. Now I LOVE the urges coming. That means I have to create something, be spontainles, intuitiv! I usually write something, in my language, and it goes away.


    I think the core truth is that you did not have the self esteem to stand up for your own thoughts and your own creation. This leeds to energy collecting in your body, and you have depended on porn to free yourself from it.
     
  2. Enigma897

    Enigma897 Fapstronaut

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    wow this is a really good way of thinking about urges.
    Yes urges are not the enemy , we should be happy when they come around since if we defeat the urge then we are one more step closer to freedom.

    Thank you very much for the post.
     
  3. Yes, until we realize this, we think that they are very harmful for us.
    Of late I've become very conscious of urges. Like I can feel whennan urge is there and telling me to do something.
    Now I can talk to my urge and I can think why is it telling me and I can look ahead into what would happen if I did what the urge told me, and I can come up with a reason why I need not to follow all the things the urge tells me to do.
     
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  4. FY_33

    FY_33 Fapstronaut

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    Yes, we are on the same page. If we have no urge to sex, that's abnormal. So i am being grateful if i am horny especially in the morning. That mean i can still feel the ultimate pleasure with girl later. Just don't waste it with M.
     
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  5. WHAT A POINT OF VIEW !!!
    I love this POV. We all have stuff, works, hobbies. I'd like to draw :D Wow such a positive and creative thinking. I don't think that way. I always fight urges and fail then. But i'll try it if there's any urge. Thank you for sharing this view!! Good luck to your journey!!
     
  6. SREENII

    SREENII Fapstronaut

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    use grammarly
     

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