Unable to cum

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Arthu, Jun 13, 2015.

  1. Arthu

    Arthu New Fapstronaut

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    I've been having sex 11 years now and not once have I ever been able to cum. Started masterbating a few times a day when I was 12 years old and have done it ever since. I started off with the usual playboy's and progressed into hard port today. I just want to be able to cum inside my girlfriend. Quite a few women in the past thought that there was something wrong with them. It wasn't them it was me. I just want to be normal
     
  2. IGY

    IGY Guest

    I wonder if you use the "death grip" when you masturbate (i.e. hold your penis very tight). That is one reason why you cannot cum during intercourse. You can create a level of pressure with your hand than you would ever experience inside a vagina or even an anus.
     
  3. Hi Arthu
    Yes, IGY is right. All these years of PMO and hard grip are causing you this.
    I lost my ability to cum with real sex with my wife for years, because I was PMO ISG two or three times per day, edging for and hour and with " hard grip"
    I started NoFap 32 days ago, and started having sex with my wife again 14 days ago.
    For the first time in years I got an erection and could hold it for 5-6 minutes without Viagra
    We had sex three times and I could not cum during penetration, just could cum when she was masturbating me with his hand.
    It is a matter of time, the brain needs to re wire. You need to stay PMO free and eventually will start cumming, according to other posts Inread