Trying to have sex

ConMan · May 8, 2018

So I'm 22 years old been M to P for about 9 or 10 years gradually looking at more and more extreme stuff. I haven't watching P in about 45 days and only M 2 times since that time. I've been getting hjs and BJs from my gf in this time and we tried having sex the other night but I couldn't stay hard (lasted literally 45 seconds then went soft and couldn't feel much) how much longer will it take till I can have sex? Every time before this "streak" I couldn't get hard at all for sex, I can get hard now from hjs and BJs normally now. When I started seeing her I couldn't get hard at all and slowly been getting better and better. So I'm just wondering if I will ever be able to have normal sex and enjoy it? Thanks.

Sam_ba · May 8, 2018

Congrats for coming here
Congrats for asking help from GF Maybe give it 6 month or a year and if your still not reaching what you want, try something else.
I could not maintain an erection during PIV. now I don't think about it anymore so maybe try to be patient,work on your performance anxiety and massage her. The rest of the magic will come when your body is ripe
Stay strong we do this together

seaguy44 · May 13, 2018

Give her few orgasms to help satisfy her so you don’t have to worry about pleasing her and let her orgasms arouse you naturally. I’m not cured but this does help a lot

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