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truth about nofap !

Discussion in 'Self Improvement' started by yojesse, Oct 26, 2014.

  1. yojesse

    yojesse Fapstronaut

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    Hi guys . In this post i will discuss about how people mistake nofap as for being the MIRACLE CURE for everything. First of all I really believe in nofap because I understand my PORN addiction and how it INTERFERE with my mood. But not to say that MASTURBATION really helped me discover my sexuality. Now I don't want to go back and explain how I got hooked up to PORN and how it kills my personality, especially make me objectify women a lot.

    Everyone has problems in their life,some of them are caused by people's attitude toward life,some people constantly suffer from bad luck ,some people inherit problems from their birth (disability or some sort of mental issue ),some people have problems because of other people ( relationship issue). Not to say having less money is a big problem indeed. Those problems are deeply rooted in our society . Not just me or you, it's everyone. But every problem has a solution but to solve it, we need to identify the cause,the root of the problem. But the problem is people have problems one identifying the causes of their problems,issues. Some times they they end up something normal as the cause to their problems. Here come my point, most of the guys here attribute PMO to their shyness toward girls and basically everything in their life. Just read some post under addiction or rebooting , guys will post something like " I've never had a girlfriend because I was FAPPING and it made me anxious when I approach girls.". Because fapping doesn't make you not have a girlfriend . It's because of your attitude , because of your shyness . To be honest , I was really anxious and shy even before I discovered PMO.basically men have an a dunce of sexual energy which always seeks real ease , the purpose of that energy is to get released(it's doesn't have to be inside a vagina). Men fap until they have access to a vagina because they have to keep their sperm fresh ,so that they can successfully fertilize an egg. Their are many cases of animals masturbating in the wild or zoo. Remember anything that's not used get wasted away. When I signed up for nofap I came across an article by the founder of nofap.org , he basically pointed an arrival saying that testosterone rises to 47% above baseline when we don't fap for 7 days straight. But he forget to mention that it returned to the basins the day after it spiked . So it's just one day spike. He read that article and started the nofap . Their are some scientific research on testosterone decreasing below the baseline when we abstain from sexual activity for a long time. And the most craziest things guys here often discuss is the superpower . Personally I don't think any of that exist . We all need to man up and say after we fap"fuck yeah I don't have any problem approaching girls because I'm a FUCKING MAN). That's my attitude of never giving up no matter what. So far I see nofap as a way to help us quit PORN ADDICTION , but not to give up MO. Because it's a part of growing. , some people quit MO when they are like 25 something ,some people continue to fap even when they are married . Sure enough neither of two has any negative impact on our health. So far I haven't heard about anyone died from MO. So it's the fucking PORN that we have to quit . So please identify your PORN addiction . PORN kills our brain and dopamine . the more we watch porn the less we are happy when not watching porn . Even eating a pizza doesn't make you happy anymore. Just like cocain or nicotin addiction it's really hard to quit, but possible with enough motivation especially when we really identify our PORN addiction. Finally I don't mean to offend anyone or especially the founder of the nofap .org . Because he did a great job to help guys like me to find some meaning in our life. Again it's just the way I view nofap . It's the porn the villain not masturbate . Hope you guys understand my point . Thanks.
     
  2. VanillaMochi

    VanillaMochi Fapstronaut

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    I see what you're saying but MO always leads me back to porn. My default is PMO, it's what I grew up doing. I would rarely MO without porn. So I need to stop MO for 90-days to overcome my porn addiction.

    It's like saying beer is okay for an alcoholic who use to only drink hard liquor. Eventually they'll go back to the harder stuff.

    Best of luck to you,

    - VM
     

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